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بلوغ المرام
Bulughul Maram
كتاب النكاح
(أحاديث في النكاح)
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Hadith Number: 824
عن عبد الله بن مسعود رضي الله تعالى عنه قال: قال لنا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «‏‏‏‏يا معشر الشباب من استطاع منكم الباءة فليتزوج،‏‏‏‏ فإنه اغض للبصر،‏‏‏‏ واحصن للفرج ومن لم يستطع فعليه بالصوم،‏‏‏‏ فإنه له وجاء» .‏‏‏‏متفق عليه.
Narrated 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud (RA): Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said to us, "O young men, those of you who can support a wife should marry, for it (marriage) controls the gaze and preserves one from immorality. And whoever cannot (marry) should fast, for it is a means of reducing the sexual desire." [Agreed upon] .


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Hadith Number: 825
وعن انس بن مالك رضي الله عنه: ان النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم حمد الله واثنى عليه وقال: «‏‏‏‏لكني انا اصلي،‏‏‏‏ وانام،‏‏‏‏ واصوم،‏‏‏‏ وافطر،‏‏‏‏ واتزوج النساء،‏‏‏‏ فمن رغب عن سنتي فليس مني» .‏‏‏‏ متفق عليه.
Narrated Anas bin Malik (RA): The Prophet ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) praised Allah, extolled Him and said, "Yet I pray and sleep; I fast and break my fast; and I marry women. He who is displeased with my Sunnah (practices) is not my followed." [Agreed upon] .


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Hadith Number: 826
وعنه قال: كان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم يامرنا بالباءة،‏‏‏‏ وينهى عن التبتل نهيا شديدا،‏‏‏‏ ويقول: «‏‏‏‏تزوجوا الولود الودود،‏‏‏‏ فإني مكاثر بكم الانبياء يوم القيامة» .‏‏‏‏ رواه احمد،‏‏‏‏ وصححه ابن حبان،‏‏‏‏ وله شاهد عند ابي داود والنسائي وابن حبان من حديث معقل بن يسار.
Narrated [Anas bin Malik (RA)] : Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) used to command us to marry and sternly forbid celibacy and say, "Marry women who are beloved (due to their good characteristics), prolific in bearing children, for I shall outnumber the Prophets by you on the Day of Resurrection." [Reported by Ahmad and Ibn Hibban graded it Sahih (authentic)] . The aforesaid Hadith has a supporting narration reported by Abu Dawud. an-Nasa'i and Ibn Hibban from Ma'qal bin Yasar's Hadith.


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Hadith Number: 827
وعن ابي هريرة رضي الله تعالى عنه عن النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم قال: «‏‏‏‏تنكح المراة لاربع: لمالها،‏‏‏‏ ولحسبها،‏‏‏‏ ولجمالها،‏‏‏‏ ولدينها،‏‏‏‏ فاظفر بذات الدين،‏‏‏‏ تربت يداك» . متفق عليه مع بقية السبعة.
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA): The Prophet ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "A woman is married for four qualities, for her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion: so get the religious one and prosper." [Agreed upon, with the rest of the as-Sab'a] .


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Hadith Number: 828
وعنه ان النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم كان إذا رفا إنسانا،‏‏‏‏ إذا تزوج،‏‏‏‏ قال: «‏‏‏‏بارك الله لك،‏‏‏‏ وبارك عليك،‏‏‏‏ وجمع بينكما في خير» .‏‏‏‏ رواه احمد والاربعة،‏‏‏‏ وصححه الترمذي وابن خزيمة وابن حبان.
Narrated [Abu Hurairah (RA)] : When the Prophet ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) congratulated a man on his marriage he would say, "Allah bless for you (your spouse), grant you blessing, and join you together in goodness." [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a. at-Tirmidhi, Ibn Khuzaimah and Ibn Hibban graded it Sahih (authentic)] .


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Hadith Number: 829
وعن عبد الله بن مسعود رضي الله عنه قال: علمنا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم التشهد في الحاجة: «‏‏‏‏إن الحمد لله نحمده،‏‏‏‏ ونستعينه،‏‏‏‏ ونستغفره،‏‏‏‏ ونعوذ بالله من شرور انفسنا،‏‏‏‏ من يهد الله فلا مضل له،‏‏‏‏ ومن يضلل فلا هادي له،‏‏‏‏ واشهد ان لا إله إلا الله،‏‏‏‏ واشهد ان محمدا عبده ورسوله» ‏‏‏‏ ويقرا ثلاث آيات. رواه احمد والاربعة وحسنه الترمذي والحاكم.
Narrared 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud (RA): Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) taught us Tashahhud in case of some need, which is: "Praise is due to Allah, Whom we praise and from Whom we ask help and forgiveness. We seek refuge in Allah from the evils of ourselves. He whom Allah guides has no one who can lead him astray, and he whom He leads astray has no one to guide him. I testify that there is nothing deserving of worship except Allah, and I testify that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger." He (then) recites three Verses. [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a. at-Tirmidhi and al-Hakim graded it Hasan (good)] .


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Hadith Number: 830
وعن جابر قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «‏‏‏‏إذا خطب احدكم المراة فإن استطاع ان ينظر منها إلى ما يدعوه إلى نكاحها فليفعل» .‏‏‏‏ رواه احمد وابو داود ورجاله ثقات،‏‏‏‏ وصححه الحاكم وله شاهد عند الترمذي والنسائي عن المغيرة وعند ابن ماجه وابن حبان من حديث محمد بن مسلمة.
Narrated Jabir (RA): Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "When one of you proposes (marriage) to a woman, if he is able to look at what will induce him to marry her, he should do so." [Reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawud. Its narrators are Thiqa (reliable) and al-Hakim declared it to be Sahih (authentic)] . The aforesaid Hadith has a Shahid (supporting narration) reported by at-Tirmidhi and an-Nasa'i from al-Mughirah. It also has a Shahid (supporting narration) reported by Ibn Majah and Ibn Hibban from the Hadith of Muhammad bin Maslamah.


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Hadith Number: 831
ولمسلم عن ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه ان النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم قال لرجل تزوج امراة: «‏‏‏‏انظرت إليها؟» قال: لا قال: «اذهب فانظر إليها» .
Muslim reported from Abu Hurairah (RA): The Prophet ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) asked a man who had intended to marry a woman, "Have you looked at her" He replied, "No." He said, "Go and look at her."


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Hadith Number: 832
وعن ابن عمر رضي الله عنهما قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «‏‏‏‏لا يخطب احدكم على خطبة اخيه،‏‏‏‏ حتى يترك الخاطب قبله،‏‏‏‏ او ياذن له» .‏‏‏‏ متفق عليه واللفظ للبخاري.
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA): Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "No one of you should ask a woman in marriage when his brother has done so already, until the one who has proposed (to her) before him gives her up, or gives him permission." [Agreed upon. The wording is al-Bukhari's] .


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Hadith Number: 833
وعن سهل بن سعد الساعدي رضي الله عنه قال: جاءت امراة إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فقالت: يا رسول الله جئت اهب لك نفسي،‏‏‏‏ فنظر إليها رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم،‏‏‏‏ فصعد النظر فيها وصوبه،‏‏‏‏ ثم طاطا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم راسه،‏‏‏‏ فلما رات المراة انه لم يقض فيها شيئا جلست،‏‏‏‏ فقام رجل من اصحابه،‏‏‏‏ فقال: يا رسول الله إن لم تكن لك بها حاجة فزوجنيها،‏‏‏‏ فقال: «‏‏‏‏فهل عندك من شيء؟» ‏‏‏‏ فقال: لا،‏‏‏‏ والله يا رسول الله! فقال: «‏‏‏‏اذهب إلى اهلك،‏‏‏‏ فانظر هل تجد شيئا؟» فذهب ثم رجع،‏‏‏‏ فقال: لا والله،‏‏‏‏ ما وجدت شيئا. فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «انظر ولو خاتما من حديد» ‏‏‏‏ فذهب ثم رجع،‏‏‏‏ فقال: لا والله يا رسول الله ولا خاتما من حديد ولكن هذا إزاري (- قال سهل: ماله رداء-) فلها نصفه،‏‏‏‏ فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «‏‏‏‏ما تصنع بإزارك؟ إن لبسته لم يكن عليها منه شيء،‏‏‏‏ وإن لبسته لم يكن عليك منه شيء» ‏‏‏‏،‏‏‏‏ فجلس الرجل،‏‏‏‏ حتى إذا طال مجلسه قام،‏‏‏‏ فرآه رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم موليا فامر به فدعي به فلما جاء قال: «‏‏‏‏ماذا معك من القرآن؟» ‏‏‏‏ قال: معي سورة كذا،‏‏‏‏ وسورة كذا،‏‏‏‏ عددها،‏‏‏‏ فقال: «‏‏‏‏تقرؤهن عن ظهر قلبك؟» قال: نعم،‏‏‏‏ قال: «‏‏‏‏اذهب فقد ملكتكها بما معك من القرآن» .‏‏‏‏ متفق عليه،‏‏‏‏ واللفظ لمسلم. وفي رواية قال له: «‏‏‏‏انطلق فقد زوجتكها فعلمها من القرآن» . وفي رواية للبخاري: «‏‏‏‏املكناكها بما معك من القرآن» . ولابي داود عن ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال: «‏‏‏‏ما تحفظ؟» ‏‏‏‏ قال: سورة البقرة والتي تليها،‏‏‏‏ قال:«‏‏‏‏قم،‏‏‏‏ فعلمها عشرين آية» .
Narrated Sahl bin Sa'd as-Sa'idi (RA): A woman came to Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) and said, "O Allah's Messenger, I came to offer myself to you (in marriage)." Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) looked her up and down (carefully), and then Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) lowed his head. When the woman saw that he had not made any decision regarding her she sat down. A man of his companions then stood up and said, "O Allah's Messenger, if you have no need for her, marry her to me." He asked, "Do you have anything (to give her as dowry)?" He replied, "No, I swear by Allah, O Allah's Messenger." He thereupon said, "Go to your family and see if you can find something." He went and then returned and said, "No, I swear by Allah I found nothing." Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) then said, "Look for something, even if it should be an iron ring." He went and then returned and said, "No, I swear by Allah, O Allah's Messenger, not even an iron ring; but I have onl this lower garment of mine - [Sahl said, 'He had no upper garment'] - and I shall give her half of it." Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) then said, "What will she do with your lower garment? For if you wear it, there would be nothing of it on her, and if she wears it, there would be nothing of it on you." The man then sat down and when he had sit for a long time he stood up and Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) saw him departing, so he commanded him and he was called back. When he came back, he said, "What do you have (i.e. memorized) from the Qur'an?" He replied, "I have Surat such and such and Surat such and such," he counted them. He then asked "Can you recited them by heart?" He replied, "Yes." He said, "Go, for I have given her to you in marriage for the part of the Qur'an which you know." [Agreed upon; the wording is Muslim's] . Another narration has: "Go for I have given her to you in marriage, so teach her some of Qur'an." A narration by al-Bukhari has: "I have married her to you for the part of the Qur'an which you know." Abu Dawud has a narration from Abu Hurairah (RA): He asked, "What have you memorized?" He replied, "Surat al-Baqarah and the one that follows it." He then said. "Get up and teach her twenty Verses."