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Biography: Muhammad Nasiruddin al-Albani (rh)

صحيح الادب المفرد
Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad
Part One: Ahadith 1 to 249
 باب فضل من مات له الولد 
Virtue of one whose child dies
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Hadith Number: 106
106/143 عن ابي هريرة ؛ ان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:"لا يموت لاحد من المسلمين ثلاثة من الولد، فتمسه النار، إلا تحلة القسم"(1).
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah, may Allah be pleased with him, that the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "The Fire of Hell will not touch any Muslim whose three children have died, except to fulfill an oath." (Which is in this verse: «وَإِنْ مِنْكُمْ إِلَّا وَارِدُهَا كَانَ عَلَى رَبِّكَ حَتْمًا مَقْضِيًّا» ).


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Hadith Number: 107
107/144 عن ابي هريرة، ان امراة اتت النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم بصبي فقالت: ادع [الله/147] له، فقد دفنت ثلاثة، فقال:"احتظرت بحظار شديد من النار"(2).
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) that a woman came to the service of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) with a child and said, "Pray for him (that he may live); I have already buried three children." So the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "You have built a very strong fence to protect yourself from Hell."


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Hadith Number: 108
108/145 عن خالد العبسي قال: مات ابن لي، فوجدت عليه وجدا شديدا. فقلت: يا ابا هريرة‍‍‍! ما سمعت من النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم شيئا تسخي به انفسنا عن موتانا؟ قال: سمعت من النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول:"صغاركم دعاميص(3) الجنة".
Khalid Absi says, I had a son who passed away. I was greatly grieved by his loss, so I said to Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him): What have you heard from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) by which we can comfort our hearts over the sorrow of our deceased? He said: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "Your little children are the «دعاميص» of Paradise." Explanation of da‘amis: Ibn Kathir says: «دعاميص» is originally the plural of «دعموص» . It is said about an insect that is found in stagnant water. Similarly, «‏‏‏‏دعموص» is also said for anyone who enters any place, meaning these children will roam freely in Paradise, will enter homes, and will not be forbidden from going anywhere.


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Hadith Number: 109
109/146 عن جابر بن عبد الله قال: سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول:"من مات له ثلاثة من الولد، فاحتسبهم دخل الجنة". قلنا: يا رسول الله! واثنان؟ قال:"واثنان" قلت لجابر: والله! ارى لو قلتم واحد لقال. قال: وانا اظنه، والله!.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir bin Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him): I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) say, "Whoever has three children die and he remains patient, hoping for reward, he will enter Paradise." We said, "O Messenger of Allah! And if two children (die)?" He said, "And two children as well." I said to Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him): I think if you people had said one child, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) would have said one child as well. Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "By Allah, I think the same."


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Hadith Number: 110
110/148 عن ابي هريرة: جاءت امراة إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فقالت: يا رسول الله! إنا لا نقدر عليك في مجلسك، فواعدنا يوما ناتك فيه، فقال" موعدكن بيت فلان". فجاءهن لذلك الوعد، وكان فيما حدثهن:" ما منكن امراة يموت لها ثلاثة من الولد، فتحتسبهم، إلا دخلت الجنة"، فقالت امراة: او اثنان؟ قال:" او اثنان". كان سهيل(4) يتشدد في الحديث ويحفظ، ولم يكن احد يقدر ان يكتب عنده.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), he states that a woman came to the service of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah! We cannot attend your gatherings, so please appoint a separate day for us so that we may come to you on that day. He said: "Your appointed time is at the house of so-and-so." So the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) went to those women and gave them some advice, among which was this: "Whoever among you has three children die and she remains patient, she will enter Paradise." A woman asked: And two children? The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "And two children as well." In this narration is Suhail, who was strict in hadith and used to memorize, and no one had the courage to write in his presence.


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Hadith Number: 111
111/149 عن ام سليم قالت: كنت عند النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يوما فقال:" يا ام سليم! ما من مسلمين يموت لهما ثلاثة اولاد، إلا ادخلهما الله الجنة، بفضل رحمته إياهم"، قلت: واثنان؟ قال:" واثنان".
It is narrated from Sayyida Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) that she said: One day I was with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and he said: "O Umm Sulaym! If any Muslim (husband and wife) lose three children, Allah will, by His mercy, admit both of them to Paradise." I asked: (O Messenger of Allah!) And if they lose two children as well? He said: "And two as well."


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Hadith Number: 112
112/150 عن صعصعة بن معاوية انه لقي ابا ذر متوشحا قربة، قال: ما لك من الولد يا ابا ذر؟ قال: الا احدثك؟ قلت: بلى. قال: سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول:" ما من مسلم يموت له ثلاثة من الولد لم يبلغوا الحنث، إلا ادخله الله الجنة، بفضل رحمته إياهم. وما من رجل اعتق مسلما إلا جعل الله عز وجل كل عضو منه، فكاكه لكل عضو منه".
Sayyiduna Sa’sa’ah bin Mu’awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he met Sayyiduna Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him) who was carrying a water-skin hanging from his neck. Sa’sa’ah said: O Abu Dharr! How many children do you have? He replied: I will not tell you. I said: You must tell me. He said: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) say: Any Muslim whose three children die before reaching puberty, Allah will admit him to Paradise out of His mercy for them. And whoever frees a Muslim, Allah the Exalted will save each of his limbs from Hell in exchange for each limb of the one he freed.


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Hadith Number: 113
113/151 عن انس بن مالك، عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:" من مات له ثلاثة لم يبلغوا الحنث، ادخله الله وإياهم؛ بفضل رحمته، الجنة".
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that he said: "Whoever has three children die while they were not yet of age (i.e., had not reached puberty), Allah Almighty will admit that person and those children into Paradise by His mercy."


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