صحيح الادب المفرد
Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad
Part One: Ahadith 1 to 249
باب ليس المؤمن بالطعان
The believer is not abusive
Hadith Number: 235
235/309 (حسن صحيح) عن سالم بن عبد الله قال: ما سمعت عبد الله لاعنا احدا قط، ليس إنسانا(1). وكان سالم يقول: قال عبد الله بن عمر: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم:" لا ينبغي للمؤمن ان يكون لعانا".
It is narrated from Salim bin Abdullah, he said: I never heard Abdullah (ibn Umar) (may Allah be pleased with them) curse any person, nor anything else. Salim says that Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It is not befitting for a believer to be one who curses."
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Hadith Number: 236
236/311 (صحيح) عن عائشة رضي الله عنها ؛ ان يهوديا اتوا النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقالوا: السام عليكم، فقالت عائشة: وعليكم، ولعنكم الله، وغضب الله عليكم. قال:" مهلا يا عائشة! عليك بالرفق، وإياك والعنف والفحش". قالت: او لم تسمع ما قالوا؟ قال:" او لم تسمعي ما قلت؟ رددت عليهم، فيستجاب لي فيهم، ولا يستجاب لهم في".
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Jews came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said «السام عليكم» (may destruction be upon you). Upon this, Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: And may destruction be upon you too, and may Allah curse you, and may Allah’s wrath be upon you. Upon this, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:“Stop, Aisha! You should adopt gentleness, and avoid harshness and foul speech.”Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: Did you not hear what they said? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:“And did you not hear what I said? I returned it upon them. My words will be accepted against them, and their curse will not be accepted against me.”
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Hadith Number: 237
237/312 (صحيح) عن عبد الله [ هو ابن مسعود]، عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:" ليس المؤمن بالطعان، ولا باللعان، ولا الفاحش، ولا البذيء".
Sayyiduna Abdullah (ibn Mas'ud) (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that he said: "A believer is neither one who taunts, nor one who curses, nor one who uses obscene language, nor one who abuses."
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Hadith Number: 238
238/313 (حسن صحيح) عن ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه، عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:" لا ينبغي لذي الوجهين ان يكون امينا".
Sayyiduna Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that he (peace be upon him) said: "A two-faced person is not worthy of being trustworthy."
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Hadith Number: 239
293/314(صحيح الإسناد) عن عبد الله [ هو ابن مسعود] قال:"الام اخلاق المؤمن الفحش".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah (ibn Mas'ud) رضي الله عنه that he said: Among the morals of a believer, the most blameworthy is idle talk.
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