صحيح البخاري
Sahih Bukhari
كِتَاب النَّفَقَاتِ
The Book of Provision (Outlay)
بَابُ عَوْنِ الْمَرْأَةِ زَوْجَهَا فِي وَلَدِهِ:
(12) Chapter. A lady should help her husband in looking after his children.
Hadith Number: 5367
حدثنا مسدد، حدثنا حماد بن زيد، عن عمرو، عن جابر بن عبد الله رضي الله عنهما، قال:" هلك ابي وترك سبع بنات او تسع بنات، فتزوجت امراة ثيبا، فقال لي رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: تزوجت يا جابر؟ فقلت: نعم، فقال: بكرا ام ثيبا؟ قلت: بل ثيبا، قال: فهلا جارية تلاعبها وتلاعبك وتضاحكها وتضاحكك؟ قال: فقلت له إن عبد الله هلك وترك بنات وإني كرهت ان اجيئهن بمثلهن، فتزوجت امراة تقوم عليهن وتصلحهن، فقال: بارك الله لك، او قال: خيرا".
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: My father died and left seven or nine girls and I married a matron. Allah's Apostle said to me, "O Jabir! Have you married?" I said, "Yes." He said, "A virgin or a matron?" I replied, "A matron." he said, "Why not a virgin, so that you might play with her and she with you, and you might amuse her and she amuse you." I said, " `Abdullah (my father) died and left girls, and I dislike to marry a girl like them, so I married a lady (matron) so that she may look after them." On that he said, "May Allah bless you," or "That is good."
حكم: أحاديث صحيح البخاريّ كلّها صحيحة