اللؤلؤ والمرجان
Al-Lulu wal-Marjan
كِتَابُ البِرِّ والصِّلَةِ وَالآدَابِ
Book of Righteousness, Maintaining Ties, and Manners
باب مُدَارَاةِ مَنْ يُتَّقَى فُحْشُهُ
Dealing with Those Whose Harm Is Feared
Hadith Number: 1672
1672 صحيح حديث عائشة رضي الله عنها، قالت: استاذن رجل على رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فقال: «ائذنوا له، بئس اخو العشيرة، او ابن العشيرة» فلما دخل، الان له الكلام. قلت: يا رسول الله! قلت الذي قلت، ثم النت له الكلام! قال: «اي عائشة! إن شر الناس من تركه الناس (او ودعه الناس) اتقاء فحشه»
Narrated Aisha Siddiqa (may Allah be pleased with her) that a man sought permission to enter upon the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), so the Prophet said, "Allow him to enter, he is a bad man from such-and-such tribe." When the man entered, the Prophet spoke to him gently. I said, "O Messenger of Allah! You said what you had to say about him, and then you spoke to him gently." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Aisha! The worst person is the one whom people avoid because of his foul language."
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