صحیح ابن حبان
Sahih Ibn Hibban
كِتَابُ الجَنَائِزِ وَمَا يَتَعَلَّقُ بِهَا مُقَدَّمًا أَوْ مُؤَخَّرًا
Book of Funerals and Related Matters
فصل في أحوال الميت في قبره - ذكر البيان بأن هذا الخطاب أراد به صلى الله عليه وسلم إذا نيح على الكفار دون أن يكون المبكي عليه مسلما
Section on the state of the dead in the grave – Clarifying that the Prophet meant wailing over disbelievers, not Muslims
Hadith Number: 3136
اخبرنا ابو خليفة ، حدثنا ابو الوليد الطيالسي ، حدثنا نافع بن عمر ، عن ابن ابي مليكة ، قال: حضرت جنازة ابان بن عثمان فجاء ابن عمر، فجلس، وجاء ابن عباس فجلس، فقال ابن عمر : الا تنهى هؤلاء عن البكاء، فإني سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول:" إن الميت يعذب ببكاء اهله عليه" ، فقال ابن عباس مجيبا له: قد كان عمر يقول بعض ذلك. خرجنا مع عمر حتى إذا كنا بالبيداء، إذا راكب في ظل شجرة، فقال: يا عبد الله بن عباس انظر من الراكب، فجئت فإذا صهيب معه اهله، فقال لي: ادع لي صهيبا، فصحبه حتى دخل المدينة، فاصيب عمر، فقال: وااخاه، واصاحباه، فقال عمر رضي الله عنه: يا صهيب، لا تبك، فإني سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول: " يعذب الميت ببكاء اهله عليه" . فذكر ذلك لعائشة ، فقالت: والله ما تحدثون عن كذابين ولا مكذبين، وإن لكم في القرآن ما يكفيكم عن ذلك: ولا تزر وازرة وزر اخرى سورة الانعام آية 164، ولكن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:" إن الله يزيد الكافر ببكاء اهله عليه" .
Ibn Abi Mulaika narrates: I participated in the funeral of Sayyiduna Uthman's son Aban. There, Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) arrived and sat down. Then Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) arrived and sat down. Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) said: Do you not stop them from crying? I heard the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "Indeed, the deceased is punished because of the crying of his family over him." So Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) replied to him: Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) also used to say such a thing. (Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with them both, narrated:) We set out with Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him). When we reached the place of Baida, there was a rider under the shade of a tree. Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: O Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both), go and see who this rider is. I went there, and it was Sayyiduna Suhaib (may Allah be pleased with him). His wife was also with him. She said to me: Call Suhaib to me. Then he joined them, until they reached Madinah Munawwarah. There, Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was wounded, so Sayyiduna Suhaib (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Alas, my brother! Alas, my companion! So Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: O Suhaib, do not cry, for I heard the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) say: The deceased is punished because of the crying of his family over him. Then this matter was mentioned to Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), so she said: By Allah! You are not narrating from liars or those who have been rejected, but for you, the evidence that is in the Qur'an is sufficient, and regarding this, (the command of Allah, the Exalted, is:) "No bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another." The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Indeed, Allah increases the punishment of the disbeliever because of the crying of his family over him."
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