صحیح ابن حبان
Sahih Ibn Hibban
كِتَابُ الجَنَائِزِ وَمَا يَتَعَلَّقُ بِهَا مُقَدَّمًا أَوْ مُؤَخَّرًا
Book of Funerals and Related Matters
فصل في النياحة ونحوها - ذكر الإباحة للنساء أن يبكين موتاهن ما لم يكن ثم نوح
Section on wailing and similar acts – Permitting women to cry for their dead as long as there is no wailing
Hadith Number: 3157
اخبرنا عبد الله بن محمد الازدي ، قال: حدثنا إسحاق بن إبراهيم ، قال: اخبرنا عبد الرزاق ، قال: اخبرنا معمر ، عن هشام بن عروة ، قال: اخبرني وهب بن كيسان ، ان محمد بن عمرو ، اخبره، ان سلمة بن الازرق ، قال: كنت جالسا مع ابن عمر، فاتي بجنازة يبكى عليها، فعاب ذلك ابن عمر، وانتهرهن، فقال سلمة بن الازرق: اشهد على ابي هريرة ، اني سمعته يقول: مر على رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم بجنازة، وانا معه، ومعه عمر بن الخطاب، ونساء يبكين عليها، فزجرهن، وانتهرهن، فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم:" دعهن يا عمر، فإن العين دامعة، والنفس مصابة، والعهد قريب" ، قال ابن عمر: فالله ورسوله اعلم.
Salamah bin Azraq narrates: I was sitting with Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) when a funeral was brought there over which people were weeping, so Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) objected to this and rebuked those women. Salamah bin Azraq said: I was present with Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), I heard him say: Once a funeral passed by the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), I was with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) at that time, and Sayyiduna Umar bin Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) was also with him. Women were weeping over the deceased, so Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) rebuked and scolded them. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: O Umar! Let them do so, for the eye sheds tears, the body feels pain, and (the distressing event) has just occurred.
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