صحیح ابن حبان
Sahih Ibn Hibban
كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ
Book of Marriage
- باب العزل - ذكر الخبر الدال على أن هذا الفعل مزجور عنه لا يباح استعماله
Chapter: Coitus interruptus – Evidence that this practice is discouraged
Hadith Number: 4192
اخبرنا ابن سلم ، قال: حدثنا حرملة ، قال: حدثنا ابن وهب ، قال: اخبرني عمرو بن الحارث ، ان سعيد بن ابي هلال حدثه، عن ابي سعيد مولى المهري، عن ابي ذر ، ان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: " لك في جماع زوجتك اجر"، فقيل: يا رسول الله، وفي شهوة يكون من اجر؟، قال:" نعم، ارايت لو كان لك ولد قد ادرك، ثم مات اكنت محتسبه؟"، قال: نعم، قال:" انت كنت خلقته؟"، قال: بل الله خلقه، قال:" انت كنت هديته؟"، قال: بل الله هداه، قال:" اكنت ترزقه؟"، قال: بل الله كان رازقه، قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم:" فضعه في حلاله وجنبه حرامه، واقرره، فإن شاء الله احياه، وإن شاء اماته ولك اجر" .
Sayyiduna Abu Dharr Ghifari (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: When you have relations with your wife, you also receive a reward for it. It was asked, "O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! Do we get a reward even for fulfilling our desires?" The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Yes, what do you think, if as a result of this relation a child is born to you, who grows up and then passes away, would you hope for reward because of your patience over him? That person replied: Yes. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: Did you create that child? He replied: Rather, Allah Almighty created him. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Did you grant him guidance? He replied: Rather, Allah Almighty granted him guidance. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: Did you provide him sustenance? He replied: Rather, Allah Almighty provided him sustenance. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Therefore, use it in a lawful way and avoid the unlawful, and you should maintain it; if Allah Almighty wills, He will give it life, and if He wills, He will give it death, and you will receive a reward.
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