الادب المفرد
Al Adab al Mufrad
كتاب
Book of Children’s Influence
باب الولد مبخلة مجبنة
Chapter: Children Are a Source of Stinginess and Cowardice
Hadith Number: 84
حدثنا عبد الله بن صالح قال: حدثني الليث قال: كتب إلي هشام، عن ابيه، عن عائشة رضي الله عنها قالت: قال ابو بكر رضي الله عنه يوما: والله ما على وجه الارض رجل احب إلي من عمر، فلما خرج رجع فقال: كيف حلفت اي بنية؟ فقلت له، فقال: اعز علي، والولد الوط.
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), she said that one day Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: By Allah! There is no one on the face of the earth more beloved to me than Umar. After saying this, he went out, and when he returned, he said: Daughter! How did I take the oath? I said to him: (You took the oath in this way). Then he said: (Umar) is dearest to me, however, (in being beloved) children are more deserving.
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