It is narrated from Sayyiduna Amr bin Aas (may Allah be pleased with him), he said: I am amazed at the person who tries to escape from destiny even though it is bound to befall him, and he can see the speck in his brother’s eye but does not see the beam in his own eye, and he wants to remove malice from his brother’s heart but leaves malice in his own heart. And I have never entrusted my secret to anyone and then blamed him for disclosing it. How can I blame him when I myself was too narrow-hearted to keep it safe?