صحيح الادب المفرد
Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad
Part One: Ahadith 1 to 249
باب العفو والصفح عن الناس
Forgiving and pardoning people
Hadith Number: 183
183/244 عن وهب بن كيسان قال: سمعت عبد الله بن الزبير يقول على المنبر:? خذ العفو(1)وامر بالعرف(2) واعرض عن الجاهلين?(3) [الاعراف: 199] قال:" والله! ما امر بها ان تؤخذ إلا من اخلاق الناس، والله! لآخذنها منهم ما صحبتهم".
Wahb bin Kaysan says, I heard Abdullah bin Zubair saying from the pulpit: "Adopt the way of forgiveness, enjoin what is good, and turn away from the ignorant." He said: By Allah! Allah has not commanded this (forgiveness) except that it be taken from people's character. (Meaning, when people behave harshly, one should deal with them with forgiveness.) By Allah! I will certainly take this from the people as long as I live among them (that is, whenever people behave rudely, I will forgive them).
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