صحيح الادب المفرد
Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad
Part Two: Ahadith 250 to 499
باب المستبان ما قالا فعلى الأول
Chapter: The two who insult each other—the first is responsible
Hadith Number: 326
326/423 عن ابي هريرة، عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:" المستبان(1) ما قالا؛ فعلى البادئ، ما لم يعتد المظلوم".
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that he (peace be upon him) said: "When two people abuse each other, the sin is upon the one who started it, as long as the oppressed (the one who was abused first) does not exceed the limits."
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