صحيح الادب المفرد
Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad
Part Two: Ahadith 250 to 499
باب التؤدة فى الأمور
Chapter: Deliberation in matters
Hadith Number: 454
454/583 عن الحسن [هو البصري]؛ ان رجلا توفي، وترك ابنا له ومولى له، فاوصى مولاه بابنه، فلم يالوه(1) حتى ادرك وزوجه. فقال له: جهزني اطلب العلم، فجهزه، فاتى عالما فساله.فقال: إذا اردت ان تنطلق فقل لي: اعلمك. فقال: حضر مني الخروج، فعلمني. فقال:"اتق الله، واصبر، ولا تستعجل". قال الحسن: في هذا الخير كله – فجاء ولا يكاد ينساهن ؛ إنما هن ثلاث- فلما جاء اهله، نزل عن راحلته، فلما نزل الدار إذا هو برجل نائم متراخ عن المراة، وإذا امراته نائمة! قال: والله ما اريد ما انتظر بهذا؟ فرجع إلى راحلته، فلما اراد ان ياخذ السيف قال:"اتق الله، واصبر ولا تستعجل" فرجع، فلما قام على راسه قال: ما انتظر بهذا شيئا، فرجع على راحلته، فلما اراد ان ياخذ سيفه ذكره، فرجع إليه، فلما قام على راسه استيقظ الرجل، فلما رآه وثب إليه، فعانقه، وقبله، وساله. قال: ما اصبت بعدي؟ قال: اصبت والله بعدك خيرا كثيرا، اصبت والله بعدك: اني مشيت الليلة بين السيف وبين راسك ثلاث مرار، فحجزني ما اصبت من العلم عن قتلك.
It is narrated from Hasan al-Basri that when a man passed away, he left behind a son and a slave. He instructed his slave regarding his son (to take care of my son). The slave did not fall short in his care and upbringing until the boy reached maturity, and then he married him off. After that, the boy said to the slave: Prepare provisions for me so that I may set out to seek knowledge. The slave prepared the provisions, and the boy went to a scholar. He acquired knowledge from the scholar, and the scholar said: When you are about to leave, inform me so that I may teach you something. The boy said: Now the time for my departure has come, so please teach me. The scholar said: Fear Allah, be patient, and do not act hastily. Hasan (al-Basri) said: In these (three pieces of advice) is found all kinds of goodness. The boy returned, and it was unlikely that he would forget these words. There were only three, after all. When he came to his area, he dismounted from his ride. Then, when he entered his house, he saw a man sleeping a little distance from his wife, and his wife was also sleeping. He said: By Allah! I cannot think of waiting in the face of this scene. He returned to his mount. When he intended to take up his sword, he remembered: Fear Allah, be patient, and do not act hastily. Then he returned and stood over the sleeping man’s head, but thought, I cannot wait in this situation, so he returned to his mount. When he intended to pick up the sword, he remembered again, then returned and stood over his head. Then the man woke up. As soon as he saw him, he rushed to embrace him, kissed him, and asked about his well-being. He said: How was it after me? He replied: After you, it was very good, by Allah, very good, for that night I ran three times between the sword and your head, but the knowledge I had acquired stood in the way. (This man who was sleeping was his father’s freed slave, whom he did not recognize while he was sleeping, but when he woke up, he recognized him.)
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