It is narrated from Hazrat Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with him) that he fell unconscious, and his umm walad began to weep. When he regained consciousness, he said to her, "Do you not know what the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) has said?" She asked, "What did he say?" He replied, "He is not one of us who wails loudly, pulls out hair, and tears his collar."