It is narrated from Hazrat Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: The deceased is punished because of the weeping of his family over him. Someone mentioned this to Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), saying that she narrates from her father that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) indicated that the deceased is being punished because of the weeping of his family. Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: He has become confused; by Allah, he is not a liar, nor was he told anything incorrect, nor did he add anything to the religion. In fact, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) once passed by the grave of a Jew and said regarding him that he is being punished at this moment while his family is weeping over him.