اللؤلؤ والمرجان
Al-Lulu wal-Marjan
كتاب الطلاق
Book of Divorce
باب بيان أن تخيير امرأته لا يكون طلاقا إلا بالنية
Giving wife choice is not divorce unless intended
Hadith Number: 941
941 صحيح حديث عائشة زوج النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم، قالت: لما امر رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم بتخيير ازواجه، بدا بي؛ فقال: إني ذاكر لك امرا فلا عليك ان لا تعجلي حتى تستامرى ابويك، قالت: وقد علم ان ابوي لم يكونا يامراني بفراقه قالت، ثم قال: إن الله جل ثناؤه قال (يايها النبي قل لازواجك إن كنتن تردن الحياة الدنيا وزينتها) إلى (اجرا عظيما) قالت: فقلت ففي اي هذا استامر ابوي، فإني اريد الله ورسوله والدار الآخرة؛ قالت: ثم فعل ازواج النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم مثل ما فعلت
The purified wife of the Noble Prophet, Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), narrated that when the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was commanded to give his wives the choice, he came to me and said, "I have come to speak to you about a matter. There is no need for you to hurry; you may consult your parents as well." She narrated that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) already knew that my parents would never advise me to separate from him. Lady Aisha narrated that then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Allah, the Blessed and Exalted, has said: O Prophet, say to your wives: If you desire the life of this world and its adornment, then come, I will provide for you and release you with kindness. But if you desire Allah, His Messenger, and the home of the Hereafter, then surely Allah has prepared a great reward for those of you who do good." Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated that I said, "Why would I need to consult my parents about this? Clearly, I desire Allah, His Messenger, and the home of the Hereafter." She narrated that then the other purified wives also said the same as I had said.
تخریج الحدیث: «صحیح، أخرجه البخاري في: 65 كتاب التفسير: 33 سورة الأحزاب: 5 باب قوله (إن كنتن تردن الله ورسوله والدار الآخرة»