Thabit Banani says: Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) said to a woman from his household: Do you know such-and-such woman? The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) passed by her while she was weeping at a grave, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: Fear Allah and be patient. She replied: Go away from me, what concern do you have with my calamity? In fact, this woman did not recognize him (peace and blessings be upon him). Later, she was informed that it was the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). Upon hearing this, she was overtaken by the anxiety of death and she reached the door of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and found no doorkeeper there. Then she said to him (peace and blessings be upon him): O Messenger of Allah! I did not recognize you. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Indeed, patience is only at the first shock of the calamity.