Narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Rumthah (may Allah be pleased with him), the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: The hand of the giver is upper. Spend first on your mother, then your father, then your sister, then as the relatives become closer. A man said: O Messenger of Allah! These are the Banu Yarbu', they are the killers of such and such person. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: No soul will commit a crime for another. Abu Nazr said in his narration: I entered the mosque while the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was delivering a sermon, in which he also said: The hand of the giver is upper.