الفتح الربانی
Al-Fath al-Rabbani
بيان موانع النكاح
Explanation of Impediments to Marriage
باب نهي الزوجين عن التحدث بما يجرى حال الوقاع
Chapter: Prohibition for Spouses to Speak About What Happens During Intercourse
Hadith Number: 7091
عن ابي نضرة عن رجل من الطفاوة قال نزلت على ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال ولم ادرك من صحابة رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم رجلا اشد تشميرا ولا اقوم على ضيف منه بينما انا عنده وهو على سرير له واسفل منه جارية سوداء ومعه كيس فيه حصى او نوى يقول سبحان الله سبحان الله حتى إذا انفذ ما في الكيس القاه إليها فجمعته فجعلته في الكيس ثم دفعته إليه فقال لي الا احدثك عني وعن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم قلت بلى قال فإني بينما انا اوعك في مسجد المدينة إذ دخل علي رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم المسجد فقال من احس الفتى الدوسي من احس الفتى الدوسي فقال له قائل هو ذاك يوعك في جانب المسجد حيث ترى يا رسول الله فجاء فوضع يده علي وقال لي معروفا فقمت فانطلق حتى قام في مقامه الذي يصلي فيه ومعه يومئذ صفان من رجال وصف من نساء او صفان من نساء وصف من رجال فاقبل عليهم فقال إن انساني الشيطان شيئا من صلاتي فليسبح القوم ولتصفق النساء فصلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ولم ينس من صلاته شيئا فلما سلم اقبل عليهم بوجهه فقال مجالسكم هل منكم من إذا اتى اهله اغلق بابه وارخى ستره ثم يخرج فيتحدث فيقول فعلت باهلي كذا وفعلت باهلي كذا فسكتوا فاقبل على النساء فقال هل منكن من تحدث فجثت فتاة كعاب على إحدى ركبتيها وتطاولت ليراها رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ويسمع كلامها فقالت إي والله إنهم ليحدثون وإنهن ليحدثن فقال هل تدرون ما مثل من فعل ذلك إن مثل من فعل ذلك مثل شيطان وشيطانة لقي احدهما صاحبه بالسكة قضى حاجته منها والناس ينظرون إليه ثم قال الا لا يفضين رجل إلى رجل ولا امراة إلى امراة إلا إلى ولد او والد قال وذكر ثالثة فنسيتها الا إن طيب الرجل ما وجد ريحه ولم يظهر لونه الا إن طيب النساء ما ظهر لونه ولم يوجد ريحه
It is narrated from a man of Banu Tufawah, who says: I stayed as a guest with Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him). Among the companions of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), I did not find anyone more serving than him, nor anyone who took better care of his guest than him. Once, I was sitting with him on a cot, and a black slave girl was sitting below. Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) had a pouch in which there were pebbles or date stones. He was saying "Subhan Allah, Subhan Allah" until whatever was in the pouch was finished. Then he threw the pouch towards the slave girl; she gathered the pebbles in the pouch and handed it back to Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him).
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Shall I not tell you an incident between me and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)? I said: Why not, please do tell. He said: I was lying in the mosque of Madinah, suffering from severe fever. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me in the mosque and asked: Has anyone seen the youth from Daws? Has anyone seen the youth from Daws? A man said: O Messenger of Allah! He is lying in a corner of the mosque, as you can see, suffering from fever. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me, placed his blessed hand upon me, and spoke to me kindly. I stood up and he walked on, until he (peace and blessings be upon him) stood at his place where he used to lead the prayer. That day, there were two rows of men and one row of women with him, or two rows of women and one row of men. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) faced them and said: If Satan causes me to forget something in my prayer, the men should say "Subhan Allah" and the women should clap their hands.
The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) led the prayer and did not forget. When he (peace and blessings be upon him) finished the prayer with salam, he turned to the people and said: Remain seated in your places. Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Has it ever happened that one of you goes to his wife, closes the door, hangs the curtain, then comes out and starts telling people that he did this and that with his wife, and that he did such and such act with her? The people remained silent. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) turned to the women and said: Is there anyone among you who does such things? A young girl with prominent breasts stood up on one knee and stretched herself so that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) could see her and hear her words, and she said: Yes, by Allah! Men also talk like this and women also talk like this.
Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Do you know what the example of one who does this is? His example is like that of a devil and a she-devil who meet each other in a street and fulfill their need there while people are watching them. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: No man should lie with another man, and no woman with another woman in such a way that there is no veil between them, except for parents and children. I have forgotten the third thing mentioned by the narrator. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Beware! The fragrance for men is that which has a scent but its color is not apparent. Beware! The fragrance for women is that whose color is apparent but its scent is not.
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Shall I not tell you an incident between me and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)? I said: Why not, please do tell. He said: I was lying in the mosque of Madinah, suffering from severe fever. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me in the mosque and asked: Has anyone seen the youth from Daws? Has anyone seen the youth from Daws? A man said: O Messenger of Allah! He is lying in a corner of the mosque, as you can see, suffering from fever. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me, placed his blessed hand upon me, and spoke to me kindly. I stood up and he walked on, until he (peace and blessings be upon him) stood at his place where he used to lead the prayer. That day, there were two rows of men and one row of women with him, or two rows of women and one row of men. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) faced them and said: If Satan causes me to forget something in my prayer, the men should say "Subhan Allah" and the women should clap their hands.
The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) led the prayer and did not forget. When he (peace and blessings be upon him) finished the prayer with salam, he turned to the people and said: Remain seated in your places. Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Has it ever happened that one of you goes to his wife, closes the door, hangs the curtain, then comes out and starts telling people that he did this and that with his wife, and that he did such and such act with her? The people remained silent. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) turned to the women and said: Is there anyone among you who does such things? A young girl with prominent breasts stood up on one knee and stretched herself so that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) could see her and hear her words, and she said: Yes, by Allah! Men also talk like this and women also talk like this.
Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Do you know what the example of one who does this is? His example is like that of a devil and a she-devil who meet each other in a street and fulfill their need there while people are watching them. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: No man should lie with another man, and no woman with another woman in such a way that there is no veil between them, except for parents and children. I have forgotten the third thing mentioned by the narrator. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Beware! The fragrance for men is that which has a scent but its color is not apparent. Beware! The fragrance for women is that whose color is apparent but its scent is not.
تخریج الحدیث: «اسناده ضعيف لجھالة الطفاوي، ولبعض قطع ھذا الحديث طرق وشواھد تقويه، أخرجه ابوداود: 2174، 4019، والترمذي باثر الحديث: 2787، واقتصر الترمذي علي قصة طيب الرجال، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 10977 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 10990»
حكم: اسناده ضعيف لجھالة الطفاوي