صحيح البخاري
Sahih Bukhari
كتاب الأدب
The Book of Al-Adab (Good Manners)
باب قول الضيف لصاحبه لا آكل حتى تأكل:
Chapter. The saying of a guest to his host:“By Allah, I will not eat till you eat.”
Hadith Number: 6141
حدثني محمد بن المثنى، حدثنا ابن ابي عدي، عن سليمان، عن ابي عثمان، قال عبد الرحمن بن ابي بكر رضي الله عنهما،" جاء ابو بكر بضيف له او باضياف له فامسى عند النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم، فلما جاء قالت له امي: احتبست عن ضيفك او عن اضيافك الليلة، قال: ما عشيتهم؟ فقالت: عرضنا عليه او عليهم فابوا او فابى، فغضب ابو بكر فسب وجدع وحلف لا يطعمه، فاختبات انا، فقال: يا غنثر فحلفت المراة لا تطعمه حتى يطعمه، فحلف الضيف او الاضياف ان لا يطعمه او يطعموه حتى يطعمه، فقال ابو بكر: كان هذه من الشيطان، فدعا بالطعام فاكل واكلوا فجعلوا لا يرفعون لقمة إلا ربا من اسفلها اكثر منها، فقال: يا اخت بني فراس ما هذا؟ فقالت: وقرة عيني إنها الآن لاكثر قبل ان ناكل فاكلوا، وبعث بها إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فذكر انه اكل منها".
Narrated `Abdur-Rahman bin Abu Bakr: Abu Bakr came with a guest or some guests, but he stayed late at night with the Prophet and when he came, my mother said (to him), "Have you been detained from your guest or guests tonight?" He said, "Haven't you served the supper to them?" She replied, "We presented the meal to him (or to them), but he (or they) refused to eat." Abu Bakr became angry, rebuked me and invoked Allah to cause (my) ears to be cut and swore not to eat of it!" I hid myself, and he called me, "O ignorant (boy)!" Abu Bakr's wife swore that she would not eat of it and so the guests or the guest swore that they would not eat of it till he ate of it. Abu Bakr said, "All that happened was from Satan." So he asked for the meals and ate of it, and so did they. Whenever they took a handful of the meal, the meal grew (increased) from underneath more than that mouthful. He said (to his wife), "O, sister of Bani Firas! What is this?" She said, "O, pleasure of my eyes! The meal is now more than it had been before we started eating'' So they ate of it and sent the rest of that meal to the Prophet. It is said that the Prophet also ate of it.
حكم: أحاديث صحيح البخاريّ كلّها صحيحة
Hadith Number: 602
حدثنا ابو النعمان، قال: حدثنا معتمر بن سليمان، قال: حدثنا ابي، حدثنا ابو عثمان، عن عبد الرحمن بن ابي بكر، ان اصحاب الصفة كانوا اناسا فقراء، وان النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم، قال:" من كان عنده طعام اثنين فليذهب بثالث، وإن اربع فخامس او سادس، وان ابا بكر جاء بثلاثة، فانطلق النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم بعشرة، قال: فهو انا وابي وامي، فلا ادري، قال: وامراتي وخادم بيننا وبين بيت ابي بكر، وإن ابا بكر تعشى عند النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم ثم لبث حيث صليت العشاء، ثم رجع فلبث حتى تعشى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم، فجاء بعد ما مضى من الليل ما شاء الله، قالت له امراته: وما حبسك عن اضيافك او قالت ضيفك، قال: اوما عشيتيهم، قالت: ابوا حتى تجيء، قد عرضوا فابوا، قال: فذهبت انا فاختبات، فقال: يا غنثر، فجدع وسب، وقال كلوا لا هنيئا، فقال: والله لا اطعمه ابدا وايم الله ما كنا ناخذ من لقمة إلا ربا من اسفلها اكثر منها، قال: يعني حتى شبعوا وصارت اكثر مما كانت قبل ذلك، فنظر إليها ابو بكر فإذا هي كما هي او اكثر منها، فقال لامراته: يا اخت بني فراس، ما هذا؟ قالت: لا وقرة عيني، لهي الآن اكثر منها قبل ذلك بثلاث مرات، فاكل منها ابو بكر وقال: إنما كان ذلك من الشيطان يعني يمينه، ثم اكل منها لقمة، ثم حملها إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فاصبحت عنده، وكان بيننا وبين قوم عقد فمضى الاجل ففرقنا اثنا عشر رجلا مع كل رجل منهم اناس الله اعلم كم مع كل رجل، فاكلوا منها اجمعون او كما قال".
Narrated Abu `Uthman: `Abdur Rahman bin Abi Bakr said, "The Suffa Companions were poor people and the Prophet said, 'Whoever has food for two persons should take a third one from them (Suffa companions). And whosoever has food for four persons he should take one or two from them' Abu Bakr took three men and the Prophet took ten of them." `Abdur Rahman added, my father my mother and I were there (in the house). (The sub-narrator is in doubt whether `Abdur Rahman also said, 'My wife and our servant who was common for both my house and Abu Bakr's house). Abu Bakr took his supper with the Prophet and remained there till the `Isha' prayer was offered. Abu Bakr went back and stayed with the Prophet till the Prophet took his meal and then Abu Bakr returned to his house after a long portion of the night had passed. Abu Bakr's wife said, 'What detained you from your guests (or guest)?' He said, 'Have you not served them yet?' She said, 'They refused to eat until you come. The food was served for them but they refused." `Abdur Rahman added, "I went away and hid myself (being afraid of Abu Bakr) and in the meantime he (Abu Bakr) called me, 'O Ghunthar (a harsh word)!' and also called me bad names and abused me and then said (to his family), 'Eat. No welcome for you.' Then (the supper was served). Abu Bakr took an oath that he would not eat that food. The narrator added: By Allah, whenever any one of us (myself and the guests of Suffa companions) took anything from the food, it increased from underneath. We all ate to our fill and the food was more than it was before its serving. Abu Bakr looked at it (the food) and found it as it was before serving or even more than that. He addressed his wife (saying) 'O the sister of Bani Firas! What is this?' She said, 'O the pleasure of my eyes! The food is now three times more than it was before.' Abu Bakr ate from it, and said, 'That (oath) was from Satan' meaning his oath (not to eat). Then he again took a morsel (mouthful) from it and then took the rest of it to the Prophet. So that meal was with the Prophet. There was a treaty between us and some people, and when the period of that treaty had elapsed the Prophet divided us into twelve (groups) (the Prophet's companions) each being headed by a man. Allah knows how many men were under the command of each (leader). So all of them (12 groups of men) ate of that meal."
حكم: أحاديث صحيح البخاريّ كلّها صحيحة