سنن نسائي
Sunan an-Nasa'i
كتاب الجنائز
The Book of Funerals
باب : الأمر بالاحتساب والصبر عند نزول المصيبة
Chapter: The Command to seek Reward and be Patient at the time of Calamity
Hadith Number: 1871
اخبرنا عمرو بن علي، قال: حدثنا يحيى، قال: حدثنا شعبة، قال: حدثنا ابو إياس وهو معاوية بن قرة , عن ابيه رضي الله عنه، ان رجلا اتى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم ومعه ابن له، فقال له:" اتحبه؟" , فقال: احبك الله كما احبه، فمات ففقده فسال عنه، فقال:" ما يسرك ان لا تاتي بابا من ابواب الجنة إلا وجدته عنده يسعى يفتح لك".
Abu lyas Mu'awiyah bin 'Qurrah narrated from his father that: a man came to the Prophet accompanied by a son of his. He said to him: "Do you love him?" He said: "May Allah love you as I love him." Then he (the son) died and he noticed his absence and asked about him. He said: "Will it not make you happy to know that you will not come to any of the gates of Paradise but you will find him there, trying to open it for you?"
قال الشيخ الألباني: صحيح
قال الشيخ زبير على زئي: إسناده صحيح
Hadith Number: 2090
اخبرنا هارون بن زيد وهو ابن ابي الزرقاء , قال: حدثنا ابي، قال: حدثنا خالد بن ميسرة، قال: سمعت معاوية بن قرة، عن ابيه، قال: كان نبي الله صلى الله عليه وسلم إذا جلس يجلس إليه نفر من اصحابه وفيهم رجل له ابن صغير، ياتيه من خلف ظهره فيقعده بين يديه فهلك، فامتنع الرجل ان يحضر الحلقة لذكر ابنه فحزن عليه، ففقده النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقال:" مالي لا ارى فلانا" , قالوا: يا رسول الله , بنيه الذي رايته هلك، فلقيه النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فساله عن بنيه، فاخبره انه هلك، فعزاه عليه , ثم قال:" يا فلان ايما كان احب إليك ان تمتع به عمرك او لا تاتي غدا إلى باب من ابواب الجنة، إلا وجدته قد سبقك إليه، يفتحه لك" , قال: يا نبي الله , بل يسبقني إلى باب الجنة فيفتحها لي لهو احب إلي قال:" فذاك لك".
Mu 'awiyah bin Qurrah narrated that his father said: "When the Prophet of Allah sat, some of his Companions would sit with him. Among them was a man who had a little son who used to come to him from behind, and he would make him sit in front of him. He (the child) died, and the man stopped attending the circle because it reminded him of his son, and made him feel sad. The Prophet missed him and said: 'Why do I not see so-and-so?' They said: O Messenger of Allah, his son whom you saw has died.' The Prophet met him and asked him about his son, and he told him that he had died. He offered his condolences and said: 'O son-and-so, which would you like better, to enjoy his company all you life, or to come to any of the gates of Paradise on the Day of Resurrection, and find that he arrived there before you, and he is opening the gate for you?' he said: 'O Prophet of Allah! For him to get to the gate of Paradise before me and open it for me is dearer to me.' He said: 'You will have that."'
قال الشيخ الألباني: صحيح
قال الشيخ زبير على زئي: حسن