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Hadith Number: 867
عن ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «‏‏‏‏ملعون من اتى امراة في دبرها» .‏‏‏‏ رواه ابو داود والنسائي،‏‏‏‏ واللفظ له،‏‏‏‏ ورجاله ثقات،‏‏‏‏ لكن اعل بالإرسال.
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA): Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "He who has intercourse with a woman through her anus is accursed." [Abu Dawud and an-Nasa'i reported it and the wording is his (an-Nasa'i). Its narrators are reliable, but it was considered to be defective for being Mursal (a missing link after the Tabi'i)] .


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Hadith Number: 868
وعن ابن عباس رضي الله عنهما قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «‏‏‏‏لا ينظر الله إلى رجل اتى رجلا،‏‏‏‏ او امراة في دبرها» .‏‏‏‏ رواه الترمذي والنسائي وابن حبان،‏‏‏‏ واعل بالوقف.
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA): Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "Allah will not look at a man who has intercourse with a man or a woman through the anus." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi, an-Nasa'i and Ibn Hibban, but it was considered to be defective for being Mawquf (saying of a Companion, i.e. Ibn 'Abbas)] .


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Hadith Number: 869
وعن ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه عن النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم قال: «‏‏‏‏من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فلا يؤذ جاره،‏‏‏‏ واستوصوا بالنساء خيرا،‏‏‏‏ فإنهن خلقن من ضلع،‏‏‏‏ وإن اعوج شيء في الضلع اعلاه،‏‏‏‏ فإن ذهبت تقيمه كسرته،‏‏‏‏ وإن تركته لم يزل اعوج،‏‏‏‏ فاستوصوا بالنساء خيرا» .‏‏‏‏ متفق عليه،‏‏‏‏ واللفظ للبخاري. ولمسلم: فإن استمتعت بها استمتعت وبها عوج،‏‏‏‏ ‏‏‏‏ وإن ذهبت تقيمها كسرتها،‏‏‏‏ ‏‏‏‏ وكسرها طلاقها.
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA): The Prophet ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "He who believes in Allah and the last Day should not harm his neighbor; and take my advice regarding good treatment of women, for they were created from a rib. And indeed the most crooked part of the rib is its upper part. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it, and if you leave it alone it will remain crooked. So, take my advice regarding good treatment of women." [Agreed upon; the wording is al-Bukhari's] . Muslim has: "So if you enjoy her you will do so while crookedness remains in her; but if you attempt to straighten her you will break her, and breaking her is divorcing her."


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Hadith Number: 870
وعن جابر قال: كنا مع النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم في غزوة،‏‏‏‏ فلما قدمنا المدينة ذهبنا لندخل فقال: «‏‏‏‏امهلوا حتى تدخلوا ليلا،‏‏‏‏ (يعني عشاء) لكي تمتشط الشعثة،‏‏‏‏ وتستحد المغيبة» .‏‏‏‏ متفق عليه. وفي رواية للبخاري: «‏‏‏‏إذا اطال احدكم الغيبة فلا يطرق اهله ليلا» .‏‏‏‏
Narrated Jabir (RA): We were with the Prophet ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) on an expedition. Then, when we arrived at al-Madinah and were about to enter he said, "Wait so that you may enter by night - i.e. in the evening in order that the woman with disheveled hair may comb it and the woman whose husband has been away may shave her pubic hairs (getting ready for her husband)." [Agreed upon] . A narration by al-Bukhari has: "When one of you has been away from home for a long time, he must not come to his family during the night."


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Hadith Number: 871
وعن ابي سعيد الخدري رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «‏‏‏‏إن شر الناس عند الله منزلة يوم القيامة الرجل يفضي إلى امراته،‏‏‏‏ وتفضي إليه ثم ينشر سرها» .‏‏‏‏ اخرجه مسلم.
Narrated Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (RA): Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "The worst of people in position before Allah on the Day of Resurrection is the man who has intercourse with his wife, and she with him, and then spreads her secrets." [Reported by Muslim] .


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Hadith Number: 872
وعن حكيم بن معاوية عن ابيه رضي الله عنه قال: قلت: يا رسول الله! ما حق زوج احدنا عليه؟ قال: «‏‏‏‏تطعمها إذا اكلت،‏‏‏‏ وتكسوها إذا اكتسيت،‏‏‏‏ ولا تضرب الوجه،‏‏‏‏ ولا تقبح،‏‏‏‏ ولا تهجر إلا في البيت» .‏‏‏‏ رواه احمد وابو داود والنسائي وابن ماجه،‏‏‏‏ وعلق البخاري بعضه،‏‏‏‏ وصححه ابن حبان والحاكم.
Narrated Hakim bin Mu'awiyah on the authority of his father (RA): I asked, "O Messenger of Allah, what are the rights of a wife of one of us on her husband?" He replied, "You should give her food when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, not strike her on the face, and do not revile her or desert her except within the house." [Reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawud, an-Nasa'i and Ibn Majah, al-Bukhari mentioned part of it [the last sentence] as Mu'allaq (a broken chain from the side of the collector, i.e. al-Bukhari), Ibn Hibban and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)] .


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Hadith Number: 873
وعن جابر بن عبد الله قال: كانت اليهود تقول: إذا اتى الرجل امراته من دبرها في قبلها كان الولد احول فنزلت: «نساؤكم حرث لكم فاتوا حرثكم انى شئتم» متفق عليه , واللفظ لمسلم
Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah (RA): The Jews used to say, "When a man has intercourse with his wife through the vagina, but from her back side, the child will be squint-eyed." Then, the Verse came down: "Your wives are a tilth to you, so come to your tilth however you wish [2:223] ." [Agreed upon; the wording is Muslim's] .


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Hadith Number: 874
وعن ابن عباس رضي الله عنهما قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «‏‏‏‏لو ان احدكم إذا اراد ان ياتي اهله قال: بسم الله،‏‏‏‏ اللهم جنبنا الشيطان،‏‏‏‏ وجنب الشيطان ما رزقتنا،‏‏‏‏ فإنه إن يقدر بينهما ولد في ذلك،‏‏‏‏ لم يضره الشيطان ابدا» .‏‏‏‏ متفق عليه.
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA): Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "If anyone who intends to have intercourse with his wife says, 'In the Name of Allah. O Allah, keep us away from the devil and keep the devil away from what You have provided us (of children)', should it be ordained that a child be born to them thereby, Satan will never harm it." [Agreed upon] .


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Hadith Number: 875
وعن ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه عن النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم قال: «‏‏‏‏إذا دعا الرجل امراته إلى فراشه،‏‏‏‏ فابت ان تجيء،‏‏‏‏ فبات غضبان،‏‏‏‏ لعنتها الملائكة حتى تصبح» .‏‏‏‏ متفق عليه واللفظ للبخاري. ولمسلم: «‏‏‏‏كان الذي في السماء ساخطا عليها،‏‏‏‏ حتى يرضى عنها» .
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA): The Prophet ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "When a man calls his wife to come to his bed (for marital relations), and she refuses to come, and he spends the night in anger, the angels curse her till the morning." [Agreed upon; the wording is al-Bukhari's] . Muslim has: "He Who is in heaven is displeased with her till her husband is pleased with her."


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Hadith Number: 876
وعن ابن عمر رضي الله عنهما: ان النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم لعن الواصلة،‏‏‏‏ والمستوصلة،‏‏‏‏ والواشمة،‏‏‏‏ والمستوشمة. متفق عليه.
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA): "The Prophet ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) cursed the woman who joins false hair to her real hair [extensions] and the one who asks for it to be done to her; and the woman who tattoos (others) and the one who has it done (for her). [Agreed upon] .