الفتح الربانی
Al-Fath al-Rabbani
Patience
بَابُ قِصَّةُ أمْ سُلَيْمٍ مَعَ زَوْجِهَا أَبِي طَلْحَةَ الأَنْصَارِي عَنْدَمَا تُوُفِّيَ وَلَدُهُمَا
Chapter on the story of Umm Sulaym with her husband Abu Talhah Al-Ansari when their son died
Hadith Number: 9418
عن انس رضي الله عنه قال مات ابن لابي طلحة من ام سليم فقالت لاهلها لا تحدثوا ابا طلحة بابنه حتى اكون انا احدثه قال فجاء فقربت إليه عشاء فاكل وشرب قال ثم تصنعت له احسن ما كانت تصنع قبل ذلك فوقع بها فلما رات انه قد شبع واصاب منها قالت يا ابا طلحة ارايت ان قوما اعاروا عاريتهم اهل بيت وطلبوا عاريتهم الهم ان يمنعوهم قال لا قالت فاحتسب ابنك فانطلق حتى اتى النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فاخبره بما كان فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ((بارك الله لكما في غابر ليلتكما)) قال فحملت قال فكان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم في سفر وهي معه وكان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم إذا اتى المدينة من سفر لا يطرقها طروقا فدنوا من المدينة فضربها المخاض واحتبس عليها ابو طلحة وانطلق رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فقال ابو طلحة يا رب إنك لتعلم انه يعجبني ان اخرج مع رسولك إذا خرج وادخل معه إذا دخل وقد احتبست بما ترى قال تقول ام سليم يا ابا طلحة ما اجد الذي كنت اجد فانطلق فانطلقنا قال وضربها المخاض حين قدموا فولدت غلاما فقالت لي امي يا انس لا يرضعنه احد حتى تغدو به على رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم قال فصادفته ومعه ميسم فلما رآني قال ((لعل ام سليم ولدت)) قلت نعم قال فوضع الميسم قال فجئت به فوضعته في حجره قال ودعا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم بعجوة من عجوة المدينة فلاكها في فيه حتى ذابت ثم قذفها في في الصبي فجعل الصبي يتلمظ فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ((انظروا إلى حب الانصار التمر)) قال فمسح وجهه وسماه عبد الله
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the son of Sayyiduna Abu Talha and Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with them both) passed away. Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) said to her family: Do not inform Abu Talha (may Allah be pleased with him) about his son; I will tell him myself. So when he came, she presented him with the evening meal; he ate and drank. Then Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) prepared herself well for her husband, as she used to do before, and he had relations with her. When Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) saw that her husband was satisfied and had fulfilled his marital right, she said: O Abu Talha! What is your opinion about people who are given something on loan by the people of a household, and then when they ask for it back, can they withhold it? He said: No, they cannot withhold it. Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) said: Then seek reward by being patient over the death of your son.
Sayyiduna Abu Talha (may Allah be pleased with him) set out until he reached the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and informed him of the whole matter. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: May Allah bless you in your night just passed. Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) became pregnant.
Once, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey and Umm Sulaym was with him. When the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) would return from a journey to Madinah, he would not enter the city at night. When they neared Madinah, Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) began to experience labor pains. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) went ahead, but Sayyiduna Abu Talha (may Allah be pleased with him) stayed with his wife and said: O my Lord! You know that I love to go out on a journey with Your Messenger and to enter Madinah with him, but now You see that I have stayed behind. Then Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) said: What I was feeling before, I am not feeling now. So we set out, and when we reached Madinah, the labor pains started again and she gave birth to a child.
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) says: My mother said to me: O Anas! Let no one nurse him until you take him to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) in the morning. He says: I took the child to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and found him with an iron branding tool in his hand for marking animals. When he saw me, he said: Perhaps Umm Sulaym has given birth? I said: Yes. He put down the tool, I brought the child forward and placed him in the lap of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) called for some dates of Madinah’s ‘Ajwah variety, chewed them in his blessed mouth until they became soft, then put them in the child’s mouth, and the child began to move his tongue and swallow it. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: See how much the Ansar love dates! Then he passed his hand over the child’s face and named him Abdullah.
Sayyiduna Abu Talha (may Allah be pleased with him) set out until he reached the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and informed him of the whole matter. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: May Allah bless you in your night just passed. Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) became pregnant.
Once, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey and Umm Sulaym was with him. When the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) would return from a journey to Madinah, he would not enter the city at night. When they neared Madinah, Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) began to experience labor pains. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) went ahead, but Sayyiduna Abu Talha (may Allah be pleased with him) stayed with his wife and said: O my Lord! You know that I love to go out on a journey with Your Messenger and to enter Madinah with him, but now You see that I have stayed behind. Then Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) said: What I was feeling before, I am not feeling now. So we set out, and when we reached Madinah, the labor pains started again and she gave birth to a child.
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) says: My mother said to me: O Anas! Let no one nurse him until you take him to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) in the morning. He says: I took the child to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and found him with an iron branding tool in his hand for marking animals. When he saw me, he said: Perhaps Umm Sulaym has given birth? I said: Yes. He put down the tool, I brought the child forward and placed him in the lap of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) called for some dates of Madinah’s ‘Ajwah variety, chewed them in his blessed mouth until they became soft, then put them in the child’s mouth, and the child began to move his tongue and swallow it. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: See how much the Ansar love dates! Then he passed his hand over the child’s face and named him Abdullah.
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حكم: أخرجه مسلم: ص 1909
Hadith Number: 9419
عن ابن سيرين عن انس بن مالك رضي الله عنه قال تزوج ابو طلحة ام سليم وهي ام انس والبراء قال فولدت له بنيا قال فكان يحبه حبا شديدا قال فمرض الغلام مرضا شديدا فكان ابو طلحة يقوم صلاة الغداة يتوضا وياتي النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فيصلي معه ويكون معه إلى قريب من نصف النهار ويجيء يقيل وياكل فإذا صلى الظهر تهيا وذهب فلم يجئ إلى صلاة العتمة قال فراح عشية ومات الصبي قال وجاء ابو طلحة قال نسجت عليه ثوبا وتركته قال فقال لها ابو طلحة يا ام سليم كيف بات بني الليلة قالت يا ابا طلحة ما كان ابنك منذ اشتكى اسكن منه الليلة قال ثم جاءته بالطعام فاكل وطابت نفسه قال فقام إلى فراشه فوضع راسه قالت وقمت انا فمسست شيئا من طيب ثم جئت حتى دخلت معه الفراش فما هو إلا ان وجد ريح الطيب كان منه ما يكون من الرجل إلى اهله قال ثم اصبح ابو طلحة يتهيا كما كان يتهيا كل يوم قال فقالت له يا ابا طلحة ارايت لو ان رجلا استودعك وديعة فاستمتعت بها ثم طلبها فاخذها منك تجزع من ذلك قال لا قالت فإن ابنك قد مات قال انس فجزع عليه جزعا شديدا وحدث رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم بما كان من امرها في الطعام والطيب وما كان منه إليها قال فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ((فبتما عروسين وهو إلى جنبكما)) قال نعم يا رسول الله فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ((بارك الله لكما في ليلتكما)) قال فحملت ام سليم تلك الليلة قال فولدت غلاما قال فحين اصبحنا قال لي ابو طلحة رضي الله عنه احمله في خرقة حتى تاتي به رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم واحمل معك تمر عجوة قال فحملته في خرقة قال ولم يحنك ولم يذق طعاما ولا شيئا قال فقلت يا رسول الله ولدت ام سليم قال ((الله اكبر ما ولدت)) قلت غلاما قال ((الحمد لله)) فقال ((هاته إلي)) فدفعته إليه فحنكه رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ثم قال لي ((معك تمر عجوة)) قلت نعم فاخرجت تمرات فاخذ رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم تمرة والقاها في فيه فما زال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم يلوكها حتى اختلطت بريقه ثم دفع الصبي فما هو إلا ان وجد الصبي حلاوة التمر جعل يمص بعض حلاوة التمر وريق رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم قال انس فكان اول من فتح امعاء ذلك الصبي على ريق رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ((حب الانصار التمر)) فسمى عبد الله بن ابي طلحة قال فخرج منه رجل كثير قال واستشهد عبد الله بفارس
(Second chain) It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) that Sayyiduna Abu Talha (may Allah be pleased with him) married Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her), who was the mother of Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik and Sayyiduna Bara’ (may Allah be pleased with them both). Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) gave birth to a beloved son for him, whom Sayyiduna Abu Talha (may Allah be pleased with him) loved very much. But it happened that the child became very seriously ill. Sayyiduna Abu Talha (may Allah be pleased with him) had a routine: he would get up for Fajr prayer, perform ablution, go to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), pray with him, and stay with him until about midday. Then he would return, take a nap, and eat food. After preparing for the Zuhr prayer, he would leave and would not return until after the Isha prayer. One day, when he returned at night, the child had passed away. Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) (initially to conceal his death) covered him with a cloth and left him. When Sayyiduna Abu Talha (may Allah be pleased with him) returned, he said: O Umm Sulaym! How did my beloved son spend the night? She said: O Abu Talha! Your son, since the day he became ill, tonight was the most peaceful for him. Then she brought food, he ate, and his soul became pleasant. Then he went to his bed and laid his head down to sleep. Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) says: I applied perfume and came to him, entering the bed with him. When he sensed the fragrance, what happens between husband and wife happened. Then, when morning came, he began to prepare as per his routine, as he did every day. Now Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) said: O Abu Talha! What do you think about this: if a man entrusted something to you, you benefited from it, then he asked for it back and took it, would you be impatient in this matter? He said: No. She said: Then your son has passed away. He became very anxious and distressed and went to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and informed him of the whole matter: that his wife had fed him in this way, applied perfume, and then what happened. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: You have fulfilled the right of marriage, and the child was between your sides? He said: Yes, O Messenger of Allah! The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: May Allah bless you in this night of yours. Thus, Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) conceived that very night. Later, when she gave birth to a child, in the morning Sayyiduna Abu Talha (may Allah be pleased with him) said to me (Anas, may Allah be pleased with him): Take him in a cloth and bring him to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and also take some Ajwa dates. So I wrapped him in a cloth and carried him; he had not been given anything to eat, nor had he tasted anything. When I arrived, I said: O Messenger of Allah! Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) has given birth to a child. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) (happily) said: Allahu Akbar! What has she given birth to? I said: A boy. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Alhamdulillah, bring him to me. So I handed him to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) wanted to perform tahneek for him, so he asked me: Do you have any Ajwa dates? I said: Yes, I do. Then I took out the dates. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) took a date, put it in his blessed mouth, and chewed it until it was mixed with his saliva. Then he gave it to the child, and immediately it seemed as if the child was tasting the sweetness of the date; he began to suck the sweetness of the date and the saliva of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The first thing that opened this child’s intestines was the saliva of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: The favorite thing of the Ansar is dates. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) named the child Abdullah. Many children were born to this Abdullah, and this Abdullah was martyred in Persia.
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حكم: حديث صحيح