صحیح ابن حبان
Sahih Ibn Hibban
كِتَابُ إِخْبَارِهِ ﷺ عَنْ مَنَاقِبِ الصَّحَابَةِ رِجَالِهِمْ وَنِسَائِهِمْ بِذِكْرِ أَسْمَائِهِمْ رِضْوَانُ اللَّهِ عَلَيْهِمْ أَجْمَعِينَ
Book of the Prophet’s ﷺ Reports on the Virtues of the Companions, Men and Women, by Name
ذكر عمرو بن العاص السهمي رضي الله عنه - ذكر جابر بن عبد الله الأنصاري رضي الله عنه-
Hadith Number: 7138
اخبرنا محمد بن إسحاق بن خزيمة ، حدثنا احمد بن عبدة ، حدثنا حماد بن زيد ، عن عمرو بن دينار ، عن جابر ان اباه هلك، وترك تسع بنات، او سبع بنات، قال: فاتيت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فقال لي: " تزوجت يا جابر؟"، قلت: نعم، قال:" بكرا او ثيبا؟"، قلت: بل ثيبا، قال:" فهلا جارية تلاعبها وتلاعبك، وتضاحكها وتضاحكك؟"، فقلت: إن عبد الله مات وترك تسع بنات او سبع بنات، وإني كرهت ان اجيئهن بمثلهن، واردت امراة تقوم عليهن، فقال لي:" بارك الله لك ".
Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: His father passed away and left behind nine daughters (the narrator is in doubt, perhaps the words are:) seven daughters (as heirs). Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I presented myself before the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), and he asked me: Jabir, have you gotten married? I replied: Yes. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: To a virgin or to a previously married woman? I replied: To a previously married woman. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Why did you not marry a young girl so that you could play with her and she could play with you, you could make her laugh and she could make you laugh? I replied: (My father) Sayyiduna Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) passed away and left behind nine (the narrator is in doubt, perhaps the words are:) seven daughters, and I did not like to bring a wife of their age among them, so I married a woman who would look after them. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to me: May Allah bless you.
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