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باب الكفاءة والخيار
Hadith Number: 864
وعن زيد بن كعب بن عجرة عن ابيه قال: تزوج رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم العالية من بني غفار، فلما دخلت عليه، ووضعت ثيابها، راى بكشحها بياضا، فقال النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «البسي ثيابك والحقي باهلك» وامر لها بالصداق. رواه الحاكم وفي إسناده جميل بن زيد وهو مجهول واختلف عليه في شيخه اختلافا كثيرا.
Narrated Zaid bin Ka'b bin 'Ujrah (RA) on his father's authority: 'Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) married al-'Aaliyah of Banu Ghifar. When she entered in his presence and he removed her clothes, he saw whiteness (of leprosy) around her waist area and the Prophet ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "Put on your clothes and return to your family." He ordered her dowry to be given to her. [Reported by al-Hakim] . In its chain of narrators, is Jamil bin Zaid, who is Majhul (an unaccredited narrator). There is also a great difference of opinion as to who was his Shaykh.
Hadith Number: 865
وعن سعيد بن المسيب ان عمر بن الخطاب رضي الله عنه قال: ايما رجل تزوج امراة، فدخل بها، فوجدها برصاء، او مجنونة، او مجذومة، فلها الصداق بمسيسه إياها، وهو له على من غره منها. اخرجه سعيد بن منصور ومالك وابن ابي شيبة ورجاله ثقات. وروى سعيد ايضا عن علي نحوه وزاد: او بها قرن، فزوجها بالخيار، فإن مسها فلها المهر بما استحل من فرجها.
Narrated Sa'id bin al-Musaiyab: 'Umar bin al-Khattab (RA) said: "If any man married a woman and after sleeping with her finds that she is affected with leprosy or insane, she gets her dowry (if he divorces her) for having intercourse with her, and it is returned to him from the one who has deceived him with her." [Sa'id bin Mansur, Malik and Ibn Abu Shaibah reported it. It's narrated are reliable (thiqah)] . Sa'id (bin Mansur) also reported something similar from 'Ali (RA) and added: "And (if) she has something like a horn (Qarn) (coming out of her vagina), her husband then has the right to divorce her or keep her. And if he had intercourse with her, she gets her dowry for the intercourse her husband has had."
Hadith Number: 866
ومن طريق سعيد بن المسيب ايضا قال: قضى عمر في العنين ان يؤجل سنة. ورجاله ثقات.
Narrated Sa'id bin al-Musaiyab this Hadith also: 'Umar (RA) gave a decree regarding a husband who is impotent that he must be given delay for one year. [Its narrators are reliable] .
باب عشرة النساء
Hadith Number: 867
عن ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «ملعون من اتى امراة في دبرها» . رواه ابو داود والنسائي، واللفظ له، ورجاله ثقات، لكن اعل بالإرسال.
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA): Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "He who has intercourse with a woman through her anus is accursed." [Abu Dawud and an-Nasa'i reported it and the wording is his (an-Nasa'i). Its narrators are reliable, but it was considered to be defective for being Mursal (a missing link after the Tabi'i)] .
Hadith Number: 868
وعن ابن عباس رضي الله عنهما قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «لا ينظر الله إلى رجل اتى رجلا، او امراة في دبرها» . رواه الترمذي والنسائي وابن حبان، واعل بالوقف.
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA): Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "Allah will not look at a man who has intercourse with a man or a woman through the anus." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi, an-Nasa'i and Ibn Hibban, but it was considered to be defective for being Mawquf (saying of a Companion, i.e. Ibn 'Abbas)] .
Hadith Number: 869
وعن ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه عن النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم قال: «من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فلا يؤذ جاره، واستوصوا بالنساء خيرا، فإنهن خلقن من ضلع، وإن اعوج شيء في الضلع اعلاه، فإن ذهبت تقيمه كسرته، وإن تركته لم يزل اعوج، فاستوصوا بالنساء خيرا» . متفق عليه، واللفظ للبخاري. ولمسلم: فإن استمتعت بها استمتعت وبها عوج، وإن ذهبت تقيمها كسرتها، وكسرها طلاقها.
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA): The Prophet ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "He who believes in Allah and the last Day should not harm his neighbor; and take my advice regarding good treatment of women, for they were created from a rib. And indeed the most crooked part of the rib is its upper part. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it, and if you leave it alone it will remain crooked. So, take my advice regarding good treatment of women." [Agreed upon; the wording is al-Bukhari's] . Muslim has: "So if you enjoy her you will do so while crookedness remains in her; but if you attempt to straighten her you will break her, and breaking her is divorcing her."
Hadith Number: 870
وعن جابر قال: كنا مع النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم في غزوة، فلما قدمنا المدينة ذهبنا لندخل فقال: «امهلوا حتى تدخلوا ليلا، (يعني عشاء) لكي تمتشط الشعثة، وتستحد المغيبة» . متفق عليه. وفي رواية للبخاري: «إذا اطال احدكم الغيبة فلا يطرق اهله ليلا» .
Narrated Jabir (RA): We were with the Prophet ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) on an expedition. Then, when we arrived at al-Madinah and were about to enter he said, "Wait so that you may enter by night - i.e. in the evening in order that the woman with disheveled hair may comb it and the woman whose husband has been away may shave her pubic hairs (getting ready for her husband)." [Agreed upon] . A narration by al-Bukhari has: "When one of you has been away from home for a long time, he must not come to his family during the night."
Hadith Number: 871
وعن ابي سعيد الخدري رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: «إن شر الناس عند الله منزلة يوم القيامة الرجل يفضي إلى امراته، وتفضي إليه ثم ينشر سرها» . اخرجه مسلم.
Narrated Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (RA): Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: "The worst of people in position before Allah on the Day of Resurrection is the man who has intercourse with his wife, and she with him, and then spreads her secrets." [Reported by Muslim] .
Hadith Number: 872
وعن حكيم بن معاوية عن ابيه رضي الله عنه قال: قلت: يا رسول الله! ما حق زوج احدنا عليه؟ قال: «تطعمها إذا اكلت، وتكسوها إذا اكتسيت، ولا تضرب الوجه، ولا تقبح، ولا تهجر إلا في البيت» . رواه احمد وابو داود والنسائي وابن ماجه، وعلق البخاري بعضه، وصححه ابن حبان والحاكم.
Narrated Hakim bin Mu'awiyah on the authority of his father (RA): I asked, "O Messenger of Allah, what are the rights of a wife of one of us on her husband?" He replied, "You should give her food when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, not strike her on the face, and do not revile her or desert her except within the house." [Reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawud, an-Nasa'i and Ibn Majah, al-Bukhari mentioned part of it [the last sentence] as Mu'allaq (a broken chain from the side of the collector, i.e. al-Bukhari), Ibn Hibban and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)] .
Hadith Number: 873
وعن جابر بن عبد الله قال: كانت اليهود تقول: إذا اتى الرجل امراته من دبرها في قبلها كان الولد احول فنزلت: «نساؤكم حرث لكم فاتوا حرثكم انى شئتم» متفق عليه , واللفظ لمسلم
Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah (RA): The Jews used to say, "When a man has intercourse with his wife through the vagina, but from her back side, the child will be squint-eyed." Then, the Verse came down: "Your wives are a tilth to you, so come to your tilth however you wish [2:223] ." [Agreed upon; the wording is Muslim's] .