الادب المفرد
Al Adab al Mufrad
بَابُ كُنَّ لِلْيَتِيمِ كَالأَبِ الرَّحِيمِ
Chapter: Be to the Orphan Like a Compassionate Father
Hadith Number: 139
نجيح ابو عمارة قال: سمعت الحسن يقول: لقد عهدت المسلمين، وإن الرجل منهم ليصبح فيقول: يا اهليه، يا اهليه، يتيمكم يتيمكم، يا اهليه، يا اهليه، مسكينكم مسكينكم، يا اهليه، يا اهليه، جاركم جاركم، واسرع بخياركم وانتم كل يوم ترذلون. وسمعته يقول: وإذا شئت رايته فاسقا يتعمق بثلاثين الفا إلى النار ما له قاتله الله؟ باع خلاقه من الله بثمن عنز، وإن شئت رايته مضيعا مربدا في سبيل الشيطان، لا واعظ له من نفسه ولا من الناس.
It is narrated from Hasan al-Basri (may Allah have mercy on him), he says: I have witnessed that era of the Muslims when a man, upon waking up in the morning, would say: O people of the house! O family members! Take care of your orphan and do not fall short in serving him. O people of the house! Take care of your needy one, and O people of the house! O family members! Look after your neighbor and take care of him. Your good people are departing quickly, and you are becoming religiously weaker every day. (The narrator says) And I have also heard them saying: And today, if you wish to see a sinner, you can see one who is spending thirty thousand (in sins) and heading towards Hell. What is wrong with this person? May Allah destroy him, he has sold his share that he could have received from Allah (in the form of reward) for the price of a goat (a trivial price), that is, he wasted it in such a minor worldly pleasure. And if you wish to see a person who has spent his entire harvest (i.e., all his wealth) in the way of Satan and wasted it, such a person can also be seen; neither does his conscience reproach him, nor is there anyone among the people to bring him to the right path.
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Hadith Number: 140
حدثنا موسى، قال: حدثنا سلام بن ابي مطيع، عن اسماء بن عبيد قال: قلت لابن سيرين: عندي يتيم، قال: اصنع به ما تصنع بولدك، اضربه ما تضرب ولدك.
It is narrated from Asma bin Ubaid that I asked Ibn Sirin (may Allah have mercy on him), "I have an orphan under my care (how should I treat him)?" He replied: "Treat him as you treat your own children, and for whatever reason you discipline your own children, discipline him as well."
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بَابُ فَضْلِ الْمَرْأَةِ إِذَا تَصَبَّرَتْ عَلَى وَلَدِهَا وَلَمْ تَتَزَوَّجْ
Chapter: Virtue of a Woman Who is Patient with Her Child and Does Not Remarry
Hadith Number: 141
حدثنا ابو عاصم، عن نهاس بن قهم، عن شداد ابي عمار، عن عوف بن مالك، عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: ”انا وامراة سفعاء الخدين، امراة آمت من زوجها فصبرت على ولدها، كهاتين في الجنة.“
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Awf bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "I and the woman with blackish-reddish cheeks who became a widow, and she patiently raised her child and did not remarry, will be together like this in Paradise."
تخریج الحدیث: «ضعيف: أخرجه أبوداؤد، الأدب، باب فى فضل من عمال يتامي: 5149 و أحمد: 54006 و ابن أبى الدنيا فى العيال: 86 و الطبراني فى الكبير: 103/18 و البيهقي فى الشعب: 8680 - الصحيحة: 1122»
قال الشيخ الألباني: ضعيف
بَابُ أَدَبِ الْيَتِيمِ
Chapter: The Orphan's Manners
Hadith Number: 142
حدثنا مسلم، قال: حدثنا شعبة، عن شميسة العتكية قالت: ذكر ادب اليتيم عند عائشة رضي الله عنها، فقالت: إني لاضرب اليتيم حتى ينبسط.
Shumaisa ‘Atkiyyah says: One day, the topic of disciplining and training an orphan was mentioned in the presence of Sayyidah ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), so she said: I discipline an orphan for the sake of training him in such a way that he lies down on the ground.
تخریج الحدیث: «صحيح: رواه ابن أبى شيبه: 340/5 و المروزي فى البر و الصلة: 209 و ابن أبى الدنيا فى العيال: 629 و البيهقي فى الكبرىٰ: 466/6 - الصحيحة: 624/7»
قال الشيخ الألباني: صحيح