Qartha’ narrated: When Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with him) fell ill, his wife began to wail. Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with him) said to her:“Do you not know what the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said?”She replied:“Why not?”So she became silent. Later, she was asked, and she said:“The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) cursed the one who wails (in mourning), shaves the head (in grief), and tears the clothes.”