مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
مسند المدنيين رضي الله عنهم اجمعين
Musnad of the Madinans
حديث ربيعة بن كعب الاسلمي
Hadith of Rabi'ah ibn Ka'b al-Aslami
Hadith Number: 16577
(حديث مرفوع) حدثنا ابو النضر هاشم بن القاسم ، قال: حدثنا المبارك يعني ابن فضالة ، قال: حدثنا ابو عمران الجوني ، عن ربيعة الاسلمي ، قال: كنت اخدم رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فقال لي:" يا ربيعة، الا تزوج؟"، قال: قلت: والله لا يا رسول الله، ما اريد ان اتزوج، ما عندي ما يقيم المراة، وما احب ان يشغلني عنك شيء، فاعرض عني، فخدمته ما خدمته، ثم قال لي الثانية:" يا ربيعة، الا تزوج؟"، فقلت: ما اريد ان اتزوج، ما عندي ما يقيم المراة، وما احب ان يشغلني عنك شيء، فاعرض عني، ثم رجعت إلى نفسي، فقلت: والله لرسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم بما يصلحني في الدنيا والآخرة اعلم مني، والله لئن، قال: تزوج، لاقولن: نعم، يا رسول الله، مرني بما شئت، قال: فقال:" يا ربيعة، الا تزوج؟"، فقلت: بلى، مرني بما شئت، قال:" انطلق إلى آل فلان" حي من الانصار، وكان فيهم تراخي عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم:" فقل لهم: إن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ارسلني إليكم يامركم ان تزوجوني فلانة" لامراة منهم، فذهبت، فقلت لهم: إن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ارسلني إليكم يامركم ان تزوجوني فلانة، فقالوا: مرحبا برسول الله، وبرسول رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، والله لا يرجع رسول رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم إلا بحاجته فزوجوني والطفوني، وما سالوني البينة، فرجعت إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم حزينا، فقال لي:" ما لك يا ربيعة؟"، فقلت: يا رسول الله، اتيت قوما كراما، فزوجوني واكرموني والطفوني، وما سالوني بينة، وليس عندي صداق، فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم:" يا بريدة الاسلمي، اجمعوا له وزن نواة من ذهب"، قال: فجمعوا لي وزن نواة من ذهب، فاخذت ما جمعوا لي، فاتيت به النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم، فقال:" اذهب بهذا إليهم، فقل: هذا صداقها"، فاتيتهم، فقلت: هذا صداقها، فرضوه وقبلوه، وقالوا: كثير طيب، قال: ثم رجعت إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم حزينا، فقال:" يا ربيعة، ما لك حزينا"، فقلت: يا رسول الله، ما رايت قوما اكرم منهم، رضوا بما آتيتهم واحسنوا، وقالوا: كثيرا طيبا وليس عندي ما اولم، قال:" يا بريدة، اجمعوا له شاة"، قال: فجمعوا لي كبشا عظيما سمينا، فقال لي رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم:" اذهب إلى عائشة فقل لها فلتبعث بالمكتل الذي فيه الطعام"، قال: فاتيتها، فقلت لها ما امرني به رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فقالت: هذا المكتل فيه تسع آصع شعير، لا والله إن اصبح لنا طعام غيره، خذه، فاخذته، فاتيت به النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم، واخبرته ما قالت عائشة، فقال:" اذهب بهذا إليهم، فقل: ليصبح هذا عندكم خبزا" فذهبت إليهم، وذهبت بالكبش، ومعي اناس من اسلم، فقال: ليصبح هذا عندكم خبزا وهذا طبيخا، فقالوا: اما الخبز فسنكفيكموه، واما الكبش فاكفونا انتم، فاخذنا الكبش انا واناس من اسلم، فذبحناه، وسلخناه، وطبخناه، فاصبح عندنا خبز ولحم، فاولمت ودعوت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، ثم قال: إن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم اعطاني بعد ذلك ارضا، واعطاني ابو بكر ارضا وجاءت الدنيا، فاختلفنا في عذق نخلة، فقلت: انا هي في حدي، وقال ابو بكر: هي في حدي، فكان بيني وبين ابي بكر كلام، فقال ابو بكر: كلمة كرهها وندم، فقال لي: يا ربيعة، رد علي مثلها حتى تكون قصاصا، قال: قلت: لا افعل، فقال ابو بكر: لتقولن او لاستعدين عليك رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فقلت: ما انا بفاعل، قال: ورفض الارض، وانطلق ابو بكر رضي الله عنه إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم، وانطلقت اتلوه، فجاء ناس من اسلم، فقالوا لي: رحم الله ابا بكر، في اي شيء يستعدي عليك رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، وهو قال لك ما قال؟، فقلت: اتدرون ما هذا؟ هذا ابو بكر الصديق، هذا ثاني اثنين، وهذا ذو شيبة المسلمين، إياكم لا يلتفت فيراكم تنصروني عليه فيغضب، فياتي رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فيغضب لغضبه، فيغضب الله عز وجل لغضبهما، فيهلك ربيعة، قالوا: ما تامرنا؟، قال: ارجعوا، قال: فانطلق ابو بكر رضي الله عنه إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فتبعته وحدي حتى اتى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم، فحدثه الحديث كما كان، فرفع إلي راسه، فقال:" يا ربيعة، ما لك وللصديق؟"، قلت: يا رسول الله، كان كذا كان كذا، قال لي: كلمة كرهها، فقال لي: قل كما قلت حتى يكون قصاصا، فابيت، فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم:" اجل، فلا ترد عليه، ولكن قل غفر الله لك يا ابا بكر"، فقلت: غفر الله لك يا ابا بكر، قال الحسن: فولى ابو بكر رضي الله عنه وهو يبكي.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Rabi’ah Aslami (may Allah be pleased with him) that I used to serve the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). One day, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me:“Rabi’ah! Why don’t you get married?”I replied:“O Messenger of Allah! By Allah, I do not wish to get married because, firstly, I do not have enough to fulfill a woman’s needs, and secondly, I do not like anything that would keep me away from you.”Upon hearing this, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) turned away from me, and I continued to serve him. After some time, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) again said to me:“Rabi’ah! Why don’t you get married?”I gave the same answer as before, but then I began to think in my heart that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) knows better than I do what is good for me in this world and the Hereafter. So, if the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) says it again, I will say, ‘Alright, O Messenger of Allah! Command me as you wish.’
So, when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me for the third time,“Rabi’ah, why don’t you get married?”I replied:“Why not! Please command me as you wish.”The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) mentioned the name of a tribe of the Ansar with whom he had a connection and said:“Go to them and say that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has sent me to you and has commanded that you marry me to such-and-such woman.”So I went to them and conveyed the message of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). They welcomed me and said:“The Messenger of Allah’s envoy will not leave without completing his task.”So they married me to that woman and treated me with great kindness, not even asking me for witnesses.
After returning from there, I came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) feeling sad. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked:“Rabi’ah! What happened to you?”I replied:“O Messenger of Allah! I went to a noble people, they married me, honored me, treated me kindly, and did not even ask me for witnesses. (To give a woman of such noble people) I do not even have a dowry.”The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to Sayyiduna Buraydah:“O Buraydah Aslami! Collect gold equal to the weight of a date stone for him.”They collected it, and I brought it to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:“Take this gold to those people and tell them that this is the dowry for the girl.”So I went to them and said:“This is her dowry.”They accepted it gladly and said:“It is plenty and pure (lawful).”
A little while later, I again returned to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) feeling sad. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked:“Rabi’ah! Why are you sad now?”I replied:“O Messenger of Allah! I have never seen people more noble than them. Whatever I gave them, they were pleased with it and praised it, saying it is plenty and pure (lawful). I have nothing to serve as a wedding feast (walimah) for such people.”So the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) again said to Sayyiduna Buraydah:“Bring a goat for him.”So he brought a very healthy and large ram. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me:“Go to Aisha and tell her to give the bag in which the grain is kept.”So I went to her and conveyed the message of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). She said:“Here is the bag; it contains nine sa’ of barley, and by Allah! We have nothing else besides this. Take it.”So I took the bag and came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and conveyed Aisha’s message. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:“Take these two things to those people and tell them to make bread from it.”So I went to them and took the ram with me. Some people from the tribe of Aslam were with me. When I reached there, I told them:“Make bread from this flour and cook the meat of this ram.”They said:“We will take care of the bread, and you take care of the ram.”So I and my companions caught the ram, slaughtered it, skinned it, and began to cook it. In this way, the bread and...
So, when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me for the third time,“Rabi’ah, why don’t you get married?”I replied:“Why not! Please command me as you wish.”The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) mentioned the name of a tribe of the Ansar with whom he had a connection and said:“Go to them and say that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has sent me to you and has commanded that you marry me to such-and-such woman.”So I went to them and conveyed the message of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). They welcomed me and said:“The Messenger of Allah’s envoy will not leave without completing his task.”So they married me to that woman and treated me with great kindness, not even asking me for witnesses.
After returning from there, I came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) feeling sad. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked:“Rabi’ah! What happened to you?”I replied:“O Messenger of Allah! I went to a noble people, they married me, honored me, treated me kindly, and did not even ask me for witnesses. (To give a woman of such noble people) I do not even have a dowry.”The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to Sayyiduna Buraydah:“O Buraydah Aslami! Collect gold equal to the weight of a date stone for him.”They collected it, and I brought it to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:“Take this gold to those people and tell them that this is the dowry for the girl.”So I went to them and said:“This is her dowry.”They accepted it gladly and said:“It is plenty and pure (lawful).”
A little while later, I again returned to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) feeling sad. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked:“Rabi’ah! Why are you sad now?”I replied:“O Messenger of Allah! I have never seen people more noble than them. Whatever I gave them, they were pleased with it and praised it, saying it is plenty and pure (lawful). I have nothing to serve as a wedding feast (walimah) for such people.”So the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) again said to Sayyiduna Buraydah:“Bring a goat for him.”So he brought a very healthy and large ram. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me:“Go to Aisha and tell her to give the bag in which the grain is kept.”So I went to her and conveyed the message of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). She said:“Here is the bag; it contains nine sa’ of barley, and by Allah! We have nothing else besides this. Take it.”So I took the bag and came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and conveyed Aisha’s message. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:“Take these two things to those people and tell them to make bread from it.”So I went to them and took the ram with me. Some people from the tribe of Aslam were with me. When I reached there, I told them:“Make bread from this flour and cook the meat of this ram.”They said:“We will take care of the bread, and you take care of the ram.”So I and my companions caught the ram, slaughtered it, skinned it, and began to cook it. In this way, the bread and...
حكم دارالسلام: إسناده ضعيف جداً على نكارة فيه، المبارك بن فضالة يدلس ويسوي، وقد عنعن هنا، ثم إنه تفرد به، وهو ممن لا يحتمل تفرده، وأبوعمران الجوني لم يسمع من ربيعة
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