It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The deceased is punished because of the weeping of his family over him." Someone mentioned this to Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), so Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: They have misunderstood; Allah Almighty says that no person bears the burden of another. In fact, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) once passed by a grave and said regarding it that at that moment, he is being punished and his family is weeping over him.