Hazrat Abu Abdur Rahman (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates that in a certain tribe there was a young man whose mother insisted and got him married to his paternal cousin. Then the boy also began to love her. Later, his mother ordered him to divorce the girl. The young man said, "Now I have come to love her and I do not have the strength to divorce her." His mother said, "Your food and your water are forbidden to me until you divorce her." The young man traveled to Syria and reached Hazrat Abu Darda (may Allah be pleased with him) and mentioned the whole story to him. He said, "I neither order you to divorce your wife nor do I tell you to disobey your mother."