سلسله احاديث صحيحه
Silsilat al-Ahadith al-Sahihah
الزواج، والعدل بين الزوجات وتربية الاولاد والعدل بينهم وتحسين اسمائهم
Book of Marriage, Justice Between Wives, Upbringing of Children, and Naming Them Well
Qualities of a good wife
Numbering by, Al-Albani: 3380, Fiqh-based: ,1499
- (الا اخبركم برجالكم في الجنة؛! النبي في الجنة، والصديق في الجنة، والشهيد في الجنة، والمولود في الجنة، والرجل يزور اخاه في ناحية المصر- لا يزوره إلا لله- في الجنة. الا اخبركم بنسائكم في الجنة؛! كل ودود ولود، إذا غضبت او اسيء إليها [او غضب زوجها] ؛ قالت: هذه يدي في يدك؛ لا اكتحل بغمض حتى ترضى).
The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Shall I not inform you about the men of Paradise? A prophet will enter Paradise, a truthful person will enter Paradise, a martyr will be in Paradise, a (minor) child will be in Paradise, and that man will enter Paradise who goes to meet his brother living on the other side of the city for the sake of Allah, the Exalted. Now, shall I not inform you about the women who will enter Paradise? Every loving and child-bearing woman, that when she is angered or treated badly or her husband is angry with her, she says (to her husband): 'Here is my hand in your hand, I will not sleep until you are pleased with me.'" This hadith is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas, Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas, and Sayyiduna Ka'b bin Ujrah (may Allah be pleased with them).
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 3380
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Numbering by, Al-Albani: 1838, Fiqh-based: ,1500
-" خير النساء التي تسره إذا نظر وتطيعه إذا امر ولا تخالفه في نفسها ولا مالها بما يكره".
Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was asked: "Which women are best?" He (peace and blessings be upon him) replied: "(The best woman is) the one who, when her husband looks at her, pleases him; when he commands her, she obeys him; and she does not oppose him regarding herself or his wealth in a way that he dislikes."
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 1838
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Numbering by, Al-Albani: 1849, Fiqh-based: ,1501
-" خير نسائكم الودود الولود المواتية المواسية، إذا اتقين الله، وشر نسائكم المتبرجات المتخيلات وهن المنافقات لا يدخل الجنة منهن إلا مثل الغراب الاعصم".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Uzaynah Sadafi رضي الله عنه that the Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم said: "The best among your wives are those who are loving, bear many children, are agreeable, and are compassionate, provided that they fear Allah Almighty. And the worst women are those who adorn themselves in front of men other than their husbands and walk with arrogance; such women are hypocrites, and none of them will enter Paradise except as rare as a crow with a red beak and red feet."
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 1849
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