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مسائل النكاح
Issues of Marriage
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Chapter: What Has Been Reported Regarding the Recommendation to Look at the Woman to Be Proposed To
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Hadith Number: 6871
عن جابر بن عبد الله قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: ((إذا خطب احدكم المراة فإن استطاع ان ينظر منها ما يدعوه إلى نكاحها فليفعل)) قال: فخطبت جارية من بني سلمة، فكنت اختبئ لها تحت الكرب حتى رايت منها بعض ما دعاني إلى نكاحها فتزوجتها
Narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir bin Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with them both) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: When one of you proposes marriage to a woman, if he is able, he should look at that which causes him to marry her. Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) says: I proposed marriage to a girl from Banu Salamah, and I used to hide behind the date-palm leaves to look at her, until I saw that which caused me to marry her, then I married her.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: حديث حسن
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Hadith Number: 6872
عن سهل بن ابي حثمة قال: رايت محمد بن مسلمة يطارد امراة ببصره (زاد في رواية: يريد ان ينظر إليها) فقلت: تنظر إليها وانت من اصحاب محمد صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم؟ فقال: إني سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم يقول: ((إذا القى الله عز وجل في قلب امرئ خطبة لامراة فلا باس ان ينظر إليها))
Narrated from Sayyiduna Sahl bin Abi Hathmah (may Allah be pleased with him), he says: I saw Muhammad bin Maslamah (may Allah be pleased with him) in Basra, following a woman to look at her. So I said to him: You are looking at this woman, while you are among the companions of Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)? He said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) say: When Allah Almighty puts the thought in someone's heart to send a proposal to a woman, then there is no harm if he looks at her.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: اسناده ضعيف لجھالة حال محمد بن سليمان
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Hadith Number: 6873
(وعنه من طريق ثان) قال: رايت محمد بن مسلمة يطارد بثينة بنت الضحاك اخت ابي جبيرة الضحاك وهي على إجار لهم، فذكر الحديث
(Second chain) They say: I saw Muhammad bin Maslamah (may Allah be pleased with him) trying to look at Bathinah bint Dhahhak, the sister of Abu Jubairah, while she was on his roof, which had no covering, ... the hadith.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: انظر الحديث بالطريق الاول ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 18139
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Hadith Number: 6874
عن بكر بن عبد الله المزني عن المغيرة بن شعبة قال: اتيت النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فذكرت له امراة اخطبها، فقال: ((اذهب فانظر إليها فإنه اجدر ان يؤدم بينكما))، قال: فاتيت امراة من الانصار فخطبتها إلى ابويها واخبرتهما بقول رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فكانهما كرها ذلك، قال: فسمعت ذلك المراة وهي في خدرها، فقالت: إن كان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم امرك ان تنظر فانظر وإلا فإني انشدك، كانها اعظمت ذلك عليه، قال: فنظرت إليها فتزوجتها فذكر من موافقتها
Narrated by Sayyiduna Mughirah bin Shu’bah (may Allah be pleased with him): He said, I came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and mentioned to him about a woman that I wanted to send a marriage proposal to. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Go, first look at her, for it is more likely that this will create love and harmony between you. So I went to that Ansari woman and gave her parents the marriage proposal, and also conveyed to them the saying of the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). It seemed as if they did not like the idea of me seeing her, but the woman heard the conversation from behind the curtain and said: If the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) has ordered you to see me, then look at me; otherwise, I swear to you, as if she considered this matter very significant. So I looked at her and married her, and thus there was talk of harmony between the husband and wife.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: صحيح
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Hadith Number: 6875
عن ابي حميد الساعدي قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: ((إذا خطب احدكم امراة فلا جناح عليه ان ينظر إليها إذا كان إنما ينظر إليها لخطبته وإن كانت لا تعلم))
Narrated by Sayyiduna Abu Humayd Sa'idi (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) said: When any one of you sends a proposal of marriage to a woman, there is no harm in looking at her, provided that he is looking only for the purpose of engagement, even if the woman is not aware of it.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: اسناده صحيح
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Hadith Number: 6876
عن ابي هريرة قال: خطب رجل امراة، فقال يعني النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: ((انظر إليها فإن في اعين الانصار شيئا))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) that a man sent a proposal to a woman. The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: Look at that woman, because generally there is some defect in the eyes of the Ansar women.


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حكم: أخرجه مسلم: 1424
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