الفتح الربانی
Al-Fath al-Rabbani
Patience
بَابُ التَّرْغِيْبِ فِي الصَّبْرِ عَلَى مَوْتِ الْأَوْلَادِ وثَوَابِ ذَلِكَ
Chapter on encouragement to patience over the death of children and its reward
Hadith Number: 9412
عن ابي سعيد الخدري رضي الله عنه قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم من قدم ثلاثة من ولده حجبوه من النار
Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever has sent three children ahead (i.e., who have died), they will become a barrier for him from Hell.
تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: حديث صحيح
Hadith Number: 9413
عن ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ما من مسلمين يموت لهما ثلاثة اولاد لم يبلغوا الحنث إلا ادخلهما الله وإياهم بفضل رحمته الجنة وقال يقال لهم ادخلوا الجنة قال فيقولون حتى يجيء ابوانا قال ثلاث مرات فيقولون مثل ذلك فيقال لهم ادخلوا الجنة انتم وابواكم
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: If three minor children of a Muslim husband and wife pass away, Allah Almighty, out of His great mercy, will admit them into Paradise along with their children. When it will be said to those children, "Enter Paradise," they will say, "Let our parents come (and then we will enter)." This will be said to them three times, and each time they will give the same reply. Finally, it will be said to them, "You and your parents, all of you, enter Paradise."
تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: اسناده صحيح علي شرط الشيخين
Hadith Number: 9414
عن ابي حسان قال توفي ابنان لي فقلت لابي هريرة سمعت من رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم حديثا تحدثناه يطيب انفسنا عن موتانا قال نعم صغارهم دعاميص الجنة يلقى احدهم اباه او قال ابويه فياخذ بناحية ثوبه او يده كما آخذ بصنفة ثوبك هذا فلا يفارقه حتى يدخله الله واباه الجنة
Abu Hassan says: My two sons passed away, so I said to Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him): Narrate to us any hadith of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) that would comfort our souls regarding our deceased. He said: Yes, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: The young children (of the believers) will be the little birds of Paradise (meaning, they will come and go in Paradise without restriction). Such a child will meet his father or his parents, will take hold of his hand, just as I have taken hold of the edge of your garment, and will not let go, until Allah, the Exalted, admits him and his father both into Paradise.
تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: أخرجه مسلم: 2635
Hadith Number: 9415
عن معاوية بن قرة عن ابيه ان رجلا كان ياتي النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ومعه ابن له فقال له النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم اتحبه فقال يا رسول الله احبك الله كما احبه ففقده النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فقال ما فعل ابن فلان قالوا يا رسول الله مات فقال النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم لابيه اما تحب ان لا تاتي بابا من ابواب الجنة إلا وجدته ينتظرك فقال الرجل يا رسول الله اله خاصة او لكلنا قال بل لكلكم
Sayyiduna Qurrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that a man used to come to the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), and his child would be with him. One day, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Do you love him?" He replied: "O Messenger of Allah! May Allah love you as I love him." Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) missed him and asked: "What happened to the son of so-and-so?" The people said: "O Messenger of Allah! He has passed away." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to his father: "Do you not like that whenever you come to any door of Paradise, you find your child waiting for you there?" A man asked: "O Messenger of Allah! Is this only for him or for all of us?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) replied: "Why not, it is for all of you."
تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: اسناده صحيح
Hadith Number: 9416
عن حسان بن كريب ان غلاما منهم توفي فوجده عليه ابواه اشد الوجد فقال حوشب صاحب النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم الا اخبركم بما سمعت من رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم يقول في مثل ابنك ان رجلا من اصحابه كان له ابن قد ادبه ودب وكان ياتي مع ابيه إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ثم إن ابنه توفي فوجده عليه ابوه قريبا من ستة ايام لا ياتي النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فقال النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ((لا ارى فلانا)) قالوا يا رسول الله إن ابنه توفي فوجد عليه فقال له رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ((يا فلان اتحب لو ان ابنك عندك الآن كان شطي الصبيان نشاطا اتحب ان ابنك عندك اجرى الغلمان جراءة اتحب ان ابنك عندك كهلا كافضل الكهول او يقال لك ادخل الجنة ثواب ما اخذ منك))
Hassan bin Kareeb says: A child among us passed away, and his parents were deeply grieved. The Companion of the Messenger of Allah, Sayyiduna Hoshab (may Allah be pleased with him), said: Shall I tell you what I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) say regarding a son like your son? The details are as follows: There was a Companion who had a son; he had taught him manners, or the child was still crawling on the ground, dragging his hands and feet. That child used to come with his father to the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him). Then it happened that the child passed away, and his father felt so much grief that he did not come to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) for six days. One day, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: What is the reason that so-and-so is not seen? The people said: O Messenger of Allah! His child has passed away, and he is distressed because of it. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: O so-and-so! Tell me, do you wish that your child was with you now and was the most active among the children? Or do you wish that your child was the most courageous among the children? Or do you prefer that your child was a strong youth of thirty to fifty years? Or do you wish that on the Day of Resurrection it will be said to you: Enter Paradise as a reward for the child who was taken from you?
تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: اسناده ضعيف
Hadith Number: 9417
عن انس بن مالك رضي الله عنه قال انطلق حارثة بن عمتي يوم بدر مع رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم غلاما نظارا ما انطلق للقتال قال فاصابه سهم فقتله قال فجاءت امه عمتي إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فقالت يا رسول الله ابني حارثة إن يك في الجنة اصبر واحتسب وإلا فسيرى الله ما اصنع قال ((يا ام حارثة إنها جنان كثيرة وإن حارثة في الفردوس الاعلى))
Narrated from Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him), he says: My maternal aunt’s son, Sayyiduna Haritha (may Allah be pleased with him), went with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) on the day of Badr. This boy had gone to watch the battle, not to fight, but suddenly an arrow struck him and he was killed. So my aunt came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah! My son Haritha (may Allah be pleased with him), if he is in Paradise, then I will be patient seeking reward, otherwise Allah will see what I do. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: O Umm Haritha! There are many gardens in Paradise, and indeed Haritha is in the highest Firdaus.
تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: أخرجه البخاري: 2598