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المستدرك على الصحيحين
Al Mustadrak ala al‑Sahihayn
كِتَابُ الْبِرِّ وَالصِّلَةِ
Book of Righteousness and Maintaining Ties
حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى الزَّوْجَةِ
The rights of the husband over the wife
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Hadith Number: 7512
حدثنا علي بن حمشاذ العدل، حدثنا محمد بن المغيرة السكري، حدثنا القاسم بن الحكم العرني، حدثنا سليمان بن ابي سليمان، عن يحيى بن ابي كثير، عن ابي سلمة، عن ابي هريرة قال: جاءت امراة إلى رسول الله ﷺ، فقالت: يا رسول الله، انا فلانة بنت فلان، قال:"قد عرفتك، فما حاجتك؟" قالت: حاجتي ان ابن عمي فلان العابد، قال رسول الله ﷺ:"قد عرفته" قالت: يخطبني، فاخبرني ما حق الزوج على الزوجة، فإن كان شيء اطيقه تزوجته، وإن لم اطقه لا اتزوج، قال:"من حق الزوج على الزوجة ان لو سال دما وقيحا وصديدا فلحسته بلسانها، ما ادت حقه، ولو كان ينبغي لبشر ان يسجد لبشر، لامرت الزوجة ان تسجد لزوجها إذا دخل عليها، لما فضله الله تعالى عليها" قالت: والذي بعثك بالحق لا اتزوج ما بقيت في الدنيا (2).
هذا حديث صحيح الإسناد، ولم يخرجاه.
[التعليق - من تلخيص الذهبي] ترقيم العلميه 7324 - بل سليمان هو اليماني ضعفوه
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: A woman came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah! I am the daughter of so-and-so." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I have recognised you; tell me, what do you need?" She said: "My need is that my paternal cousin so-and-so is a great worshipper." The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I have recognised him too." She said: "He is proposing marriage to me, so tell me: what is the right of the husband over the wife? If it is a right I am able to bear, I will marry him, and if I am not able, I will not marry." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Of the husband's right over the wife is that if blood, pus and purulent fluid were flowing from his body and the wife licked it with her tongue, she still would not have fulfilled his right. And if it were permissible for a human being to prostrate to another human being, I would have commanded the woman to prostrate to her husband when he comes in to her, because of the superiority that Allah Almighty has granted him (the husband) over the wife." The woman said: "By the One who sent you with the truth! As long as I remain alive in this world, I will never marry." Imam al-Hakim said that the chain of this hadith is sahih (authentic), but Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim did not record it.


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Hadith Number: 7513
اخبرنا ابو عبد الله محمد بن عبد الله الصفار، حدثنا احمد بن مهدي بن رستم الاصفهاني، حدثنا معاذ بن هشام الدستوائي، حدثني ابي، حدثني القاسم بن عوف الشيباني، عن ابن ابي ليلى، عن ابيه، عن معاذ بن جبل: انه اتى الشام، فراى النصارى يسجدون لاساقفتهم وقسيسيهم وبطارقتهم، وراى اليهود يسجدون لاحبارهم وربانيهم وعلمائهم وفقهائهم، فقال: لاي شيء تفعلون هذا؟ قالوا: هذه تحية الانبياء ﵈، قلت: فنحن احق ان نصنع بنبينا، فقال نبي الله ﷺ:"إنهم كذبوا على انبيائهم كما حرفوا كتابهم، لو امرت احدا ان يسجد لاحد، لامرت المراة ان تسجد لزوجها من عظم حقه عليها، ولا تجد امراة حلاوة الإيمان حتى تؤدي حق زوجها، ولو سالها نفسها وهي على ظهر قتب" (1).
هذا حديث صحيح على شرط الشيخين، ولم يخرجاه.
[التعليق - من تلخيص الذهبي] ترقيم العلميه 7325 - على شرط البخاري ومسلم
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Mu'adh bin Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him) that he went to Syria and saw the Christians prostrating to their bishops, priests and patriarchs, and he saw the Jews prostrating to their rabbis, their scholars of the Torah, their learned men and their jurists. He said (to them): "Why do you do this?" They replied: "This is the greeting (form of salutation) of the Prophets (peace be upon them)." Sayyiduna Mu'adh (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Then we are more entitled to do this with our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)." So the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "They have lied against their Prophets just as they distorted their Book. If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone, I would have commanded the woman to prostrate to her husband, because of his great right over her. And no woman can find the sweetness of faith until she fulfils the right of her husband, such that even if her husband asks her for herself while she is on a camel's saddle, she should not refuse." Imam al-Hakim said that this hadith is sahih (authentic) on the condition of the two Shaykhs (Bukhari and Muslim), but they did not record it.


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Hadith Number: 7514
حدثني محمد بن صالح بن هانئ، حدثنا السري بن خزيمة، حدثنا عبد العزيز بن الخطاب، حدثنا حبان (2) بن علي، عن صالح بن حيان، عن عبد الله ابن بريدة، عن ابيه: ان رجلا اتى النبي ﷺ فقال: يا رسول الله، علمني شيئا ازداد به يقينا، قال: فقال:"ادع تلك الشجرة"، فدعا بها فجاءت حتى سلمت على النبي ﷺ، قال لها:"ارجعي"، فرجعت، قال: ثم اذن له فقبل راسه ورجليه، وقال:"لو كنت آمرا احدا ان يسجد لاحد، لامرت المراة ان تسجد لزوجها" (1).
هذا حديث صحيح الإسناد، ولم يخرجاه.
[التعليق - من تلخيص الذهبي] ترقيم العلميه 7326 - بل واه
Abdullah bin Buraydah narrates from his father (Sayyiduna Buraydah, may Allah be pleased with him) that a man came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah! Show me a sign by which my certainty will increase." The narrator says: He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Call that tree." He called it, and the tree walked over until it greeted the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) with salam. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said to it: "Go back." So it went back. The narrator says: Then that man asked his (peace and blessings be upon him) permission and kissed his head and feet. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone, I would have commanded the woman to prostrate to her husband." Imam al-Hakim said that the chain of this hadith is sahih (authentic), but Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim did not record it.


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