المستدرك على الصحيحين
Al Mustadrak ala al‑Sahihayn
كتاب معرفة الصحابة رضي الله تعالى عنهم
Book of Knowing the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them)
خطبة النبى إلى أم هانئ وجوابها
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) proposing marriage to Umm Hani (may Allah be pleased with her) and her reply
Hadith Number: 7045
حدثنا ابو عبد الله الاصبهاني، حدثنا الحسن بن الجهم، حدثنا الحسين بن الفرج، حدثنا محمد بن عمر قال: وفيما ذكر: ان رسول الله ﷺ خطب إلى عمه ابي طالب ام هانئ قبل ان يوحى إليه، وخطبها معه هبيرة بن ابي وهب، فزوجها هبيرة، فقال له النبي ﷺ:"يا عم، زوجت هبيرة وتركتني؟!" فقال: يا ابن اخي، انا صاهرت إليهم، والكريم يكافئ الكريم، ثم اسلمت ففرق الإسلام بينها وبين هبيرة، فخطبها رسول الله ﷺ إلى نفسها، فقالت: والله إن كنت لاحبك في الجاهلية، فكيف في الإسلام؟! (2)
[التعليق - من تلخيص الذهبي] ترقيم العلميه 6871 - حذفه الذهبي من التلخيص
[التعليق - من تلخيص الذهبي] ترقيم العلميه 6871 - حذفه الذهبي من التلخيص
It is narrated from Muhammad bin Umar (al-Waqidi) that it has been mentioned that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), before the beginning of revelation, proposed to his uncle Abu Talib for marriage to Umm Hani'. Hubayrah bin Abi Wahb also proposed at the same time, and Abu Talib married her to Hubayrah. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "O uncle! You married her to Hubayrah and left me?" He replied: O my nephew! I have formed a marriage tie with them, and a noble man repays a noble man in kind. Then she (Umm Hani') accepted Islam, and Islam separated her from Hubayrah. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) proposed to her himself, and she said: By Allah! I used to love (and revere) you even in the days of Jahiliyyah, so what will my state be now in the days of Islam! (That is, now the love is all the greater.)
تخریج الحدیث: [ترقيم الرساله 7045] [ترقيم الشركة 6965] [ترقيم العلميه 6871]
Takhrij and Tahqiq of Hadith No. 7045 of Al Mustadrak ala al‑Sahihayn
by Shaykh Adil Murshid, Dr. Ahmad Barhoum, Dr. Muhammad Kamil Qarah Balli and Dr. Sa'id al-Lahham
Hadith-science notes and terminology
by Shaykh Adil Murshid, Dr. Ahmad Barhoum, Dr. Muhammad Kamil Qarah Balli and Dr. Sa'id al-Lahham
Hadith-science notes and terminology
Details of the narration: Hisham bin Muhammad bin al-Sa'ib al-Kalbi narrated this report from his father, from Abu Salih, from Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) (as in "Tabaqat Ibn Sa'd" 10/ 146). At its end there is the addition that Umm Hani (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "But I am a woman with young children, and I dislike that they should cause you harm."
Important point: Thereupon he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The best of the women who ride camels are the women of Quraysh: the most tender toward their children in childhood, and the most protective of their husband's wealth and property."
Grading: Hisham al-Kalbi and his father are both "muttaham" (accused of lying), so one cannot rejoice over their narration (it is unreliable).
Important point: Thereupon he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The best of the women who ride camels are the women of Quraysh: the most tender toward their children in childhood, and the most protective of their husband's wealth and property."
Grading: Hisham al-Kalbi and his father are both "muttaham" (accused of lying), so one cannot rejoice over their narration (it is unreliable).
(2) أسند هذا الخبر هشام بن محمد بن السائب الكلبي - كما في "طبقات ابن سعد" 10/ 146 - عن أبيه، عن أبي صالح، عن ابن عباس، وزاد في آخره قالت: ولكني امرأة مُصبَية، وأكره أن يؤذوك، فقال رسول الله: "خير نساء ركبن المطايا نساء قريش، أحناه على ولد في صغره، وأرعاه على زوج في ذاتِ يده" وهشام الكلبي وأبوه متهمان، فلا يفرح بهما.
Reference / Source: See the part that comes after it.
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