It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ka'b bin Ujrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Come near the pulpit." So we came. When he (peace and blessings be upon him) stepped onto the first step of the pulpit, he said: "Amin." When he climbed the second step, he said: "Amin." When he climbed the third step, he said: "Amin." When he came down from the pulpit, we said: O Messenger of Allah! Today we heard something from you that we had never heard before. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Jibril (peace be upon him) appeared before me and said: Ruined and destroyed is the one who reaches the month of Ramadan and is not forgiven. I said: Amin. When I climbed the second step, he said: Ruined and destroyed is the one in whose presence you are mentioned and he does not send blessings upon you. I said: Amin. When I climbed the third step, he said: Ruined and destroyed is the one whose parents, or one of them, reach old age in his presence and he does not enter Paradise by serving them. I said: Amin." This hadith has a sahih (authentic) chain of narration, but the two Shaykhs (Bukhari and Muslim) did not record it.