المستدرك على الصحيحين
Al Mustadrak ala al‑Sahihayn
كتاب الأدب
Book of Manners
لا تطرقوا النساء ليلا
Do not come to your women unexpectedly at night
Hadith Number: 7992
اخبرني محمد بن موسى الفقيه، حدثنا إبراهيم بن ابي طالب، حدثنا محمد بن المثنى ومحمد بن بشار قالا حدثنا عبد الرحمن، حدثنا سفيان، عن حميد الاعرج، عن محمد بن إبراهيم، عن ابي سلمة، عن عبد الله بن رواحة: انه كان في سفر فقدم، فتعجل إلى اهله ليلا، فإذا شيء نائم مع امراته، فاخذ السيف، فقالت امراته: هذه فلانة مشطتني، فاتى النبي ﷺ فذكر له ذلك، فقال رسول الله ﷺ:"لا تطرقوا النساء ليلا" (1).
هذا حديث صحيح على شرط الشيخين، ولم يخرجاه.
[التعليق - من تلخيص الذهبي] ترقيم العلميه 7798 - ذا مرسل
هذا حديث صحيح على شرط الشيخين، ولم يخرجاه.
[التعليق - من تلخيص الذهبي] ترقيم العلميه 7798 - ذا مرسل
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Rawahah (may Allah be pleased with him) that he returned home from a journey suddenly at night. He saw someone sleeping beside his wife, and (out of jealousy) he took up his sword. His wife immediately said: (Stop!) This is so-and-so, a woman who was combing my hair. Then he came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and mentioned this incident, and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do not come to your families suddenly at night (so that they can prepare)."
This hadith is sahih (authentic) on the condition of the two Shaykhs (Bukhari and Muslim), but they did not record it.
تخریج الحدیث: «صحيح لغيره، وهذا إسناد رجاله ثقات لكن أبا سلمة» [ترقيم الرساله 7992] [ترقيم الشركة 7897] [ترقيم العلميه 7798]
Takhrij and Tahqiq of Hadith No. 7992 of Al Mustadrak ala al‑Sahihayn
by Shaykh Adil Murshid, Dr. Ahmad Barhoum, Dr. Muhammad Kamil Qarah Balli and Dr. Sa'id al-Lahham
Hadith-science notes and terminology
by Shaykh Adil Murshid, Dr. Ahmad Barhoum, Dr. Muhammad Kamil Qarah Balli and Dr. Sa'id al-Lahham
Hadith-science notes and terminology
Grading: Sahih li-ghayrihi.
Technical note / Defect ('illah): All the narrators of this chain are thiqah, but Abu Salamah (bin Abd al-Rahman bin Awf) is not established to have heard from Abdullah bin Rawahah (may Allah be pleased with him) (there is a break in the chain); however, this hadith is established as sahih through other routes, as will be mentioned below.
Technical note / Defect ('illah): All the narrators of this chain are thiqah, but Abu Salamah (bin Abd al-Rahman bin Awf) is not established to have heard from Abdullah bin Rawahah (may Allah be pleased with him) (there is a break in the chain); however, this hadith is established as sahih through other routes, as will be mentioned below.
(1) صحيح لغيره، وهذا إسناد رجاله ثقات لكن أبا سلمة - وهو ابن عبد الرحمن بن عوف - لم يسمع من عبد الله بن رواحة وقد صحَّ الحديث من وجه آخر كما سيأتي.
Reference / Source: Imam Ahmad (25/ 15736), Imam al-Nasa'i in "Ighrab Shu'bah wa Sufyan" (64) and al-Ruyani in his Musnad (1499) narrated it by the route of Abd al-Rahman bin Mahdi with this same chain.
وأخرجه أحمد 25 (15736) والنسائي في "إغراب شعبة وسفيان" (64)، والروياني في "مسنده" (1499) من طريق عبد الرحمن بن مهدي، بهذا الإسناد.
Reference / Source: Ibn Abi Shaybah narrated it with a similar meaning in his "Musannaf" (12/ 523-524) and "Musnad" (583), al-Tabarani in "al-Kabir" (13/ 438) and Ibn Asakir in "Tarikh Dimashq" (28/ 80), via Mu'awiyah bin Hisham from Sufyan al-Thawri.
وأخرجه بنحوه ابن أبي شيبة في "مصنفه" 12/ 523 - 524، وفي "مسنده" (583)، والطبراني في "الكبير" 13/ 438، وابن عساكر في "تاريخ دمشق" 28/ 80 و 80 - 81 من طريق معاوية ابن هشام، عن سفيان، به.
Corroborating chains and supporting reports: Its shahid is the narration that Abu Awanah transmitted in his "Sahih" (7534) and al-Khara'iti in "Masawi' al-Akhlaq" (801), by the route of Ali bin Harb, al-Qasim bin Yazid al-Jarmi, Sufyan al-Thawri and Muharib bin Dithar, from Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him): "Ibn Rawahah (may Allah be pleased with him) came to his wife at night (on returning from a journey) while a woman was combing her hair; he pointed with his sword (suspecting the presence of a stranger in the dark). When this was mentioned to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), he (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade a man to come upon his family suddenly (without notice) at night."
Grading: The chain of this shahid is sahih.
Grading: The chain of this shahid is sahih.
ويشهد له ما أخرجه أبو عوانة في "صحيحه" (7534)، والخرائطي في "مساوئ الأخلاق" (801) عن علي بن حرب، حدثنا القاسم بن يزيد الجرمي، عن سفيان الثوري، عن محارب بن دثار، عن جابر قال: أتى ابن رواحة امرأته وامرأة تمشطها، فأشار بالسيف، فذكر ذلك لرسول الله ﷺ، فنهى أن يطرق الرجل أهلَه ليلًا. وإسناده صحيح.
Important point: The basis of this hadith of Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) is narrated in Sahih al-Bukhari (1801, 5243) and Sahih Muslim (715) by the route of Muharib, but there the narration is given in abridged form.
وأصل حديث جابر هذا في البخاري (1801) و (5243)، ومسلم (715) (184) و (185) من طريق محارب عنه، لكنه مختصر.