Narrated Hisham bin Urwah: On the authority of his father that Aishah said: O my nephew, the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم did not prefer one of us to the other in respect of his division of the time of his staying with us. It was very rare that he did not visit us any day (i. e. he visited all of us every day). He would come near each of his wives without having intercourse with her until he reached the one who had her day and passed his night with her. When Saudah daughter of Zam'ah became old and feared that the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم would divorce her, she said: Messenger of Allah, I give to Aishah the day you visit me. The Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم accepted it from her. She said: We thing that Allah, the Exalted, revealed about this or similar matter the Quranic verse: "If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part. . . . " [4: 128]

Narrated Aishah: The Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم used to aske our permission on the day he had to stay with one of his wives (by turns) after the following Quranic verse was revealed: "You may distance those whom you like, and draw close to those whom you like" [33: 51] . The narrator Muadhah said: I said to her: What did you say to the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ? She said: I used to say: If had an option for that, I would not preferred anyone to myself.

Aishah said The Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم sent for his wives during his illness. When they got together, he صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said“I am unable to visit all of you. If you think to permit me to stay with Aishah you may do so. ”So they permitted him (to stay with Aishah).

Aishah wife of the Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم reported“When the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم intended to go on a journey he cast lots amongst his wives and the one who was chosen by lot went on it with him. He divided his time, day and night (equally) for each of his wives except that Saudah daughter of Zam’ah gave her day to Aishah.

Uqbah bin Amir reported the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم as saying“The condition worthier to be fulfilled by you is the one by which you made the private parts (of your wife) lawful (for you).

Narrated Qays ibn Saad: I went to al-Hirah and saw them (the people) prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, so I said: The Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم has most right to have prostration made before him. When I came to the Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم , I said: I went to al-Hirah and saw them prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, but you have most right, Messenger of Allah, to have (people) prostrating themselves before you. He said: Tell me, if you were to pass my grave, would you prostrate yourself before it? I said: No. He then said: Do not do so. If I were to command anyone to make prostration before another I would command women to prostrate themselves before their husbands, because of the special right over them given to husbands by Allah.

Abu Hurairah reported the Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم as saying“When a man calls his wife to come to his bed and she refuses and does not come to him and he spends the night angry, the angels curse her till the morning. ”

Narrated Muawiyah al-Qushayri: Muawiyah asked: Messenger of Allah, what is the right of the wife of one of us over him? He replied: That you should give her food when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, do not strike her on the face, do not revile her or separate yourself from her except in the house. Abu Dawud said: The meaning of "do not revile her" is, as you say: "May Allah revile you".

Bahz bin Hakim reported on the authority of his father from his grandfather (Muawiyah ibn Haydah) as saying: I said: Messenger of Allah, how should we approach our wives and how should we leave them? He replied: Approach your tilth when or how you will, give her (your wife) food when you take food, clothe when you clothe yourself, do not revile her face, and do not beat her. Abu Dawud said: The version of Shubah has: That you give her food when you have food yourself, and that you clothe her when you clothe yourself.

Narrated Muawiyah al-Qushayri: I went to the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم and asked him: What do you say (command) about our wives? He replied: Give them food what you have for yourself, and clothe them by which you clothe yourself, and do not beat them, and do not revile them.