مختصر صحيح مسلم
Mukhtasar Sahih Muslim
Gentleness and goodwill towards women.
Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates from the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, it is necessary for him that when any matter arises, he should speak good or remain silent. And treat women well, for they were created from a rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is its uppermost part. If you try to straighten it, you will break it, and if you leave it as it is, it will remain crooked. So treat women well.
A husband should not hate a believing wife.
Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: No believing man should harbor intense aversion towards a believing woman; if he dislikes one of her habits, he will surely be pleased with another. Or he said something similar using the word "ghairah."
If not for Hawwa, no woman would betray her husband.
Narrated Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him): The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: If it were not for the Children of Israel, food and meat would never decay. And if it were not for Hawwa (Eve), no woman would ever betray her husband.
Returning from travel: not entering home suddenly.
Narrated Jabir bin Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him): We were on a campaign with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). When we were returning, I was urging my camel, which was very slow, to move quickly. Then a rider came from behind and struck my camel with a stick he had, and my camel started moving as if it were a very good camel. I looked back and saw that it was the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). He said, "O Jabir! What is your hurry?" I said, "O Messenger of Allah! I have recently gotten married." He said, "To a virgin or a previously married woman?" I said, "To a previously married woman." He said, "Why not a virgin, so you could play with her and she could play with you?" Then, when we reached Madinah and were about to enter our homes, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Wait until night comes, i.e., until the time of 'Isha, so that the woman with disheveled hair may comb her hair, and the one whose husband has been away may shave her pubic hair." Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "When you enter (your home), act wisely." (That is, do not approach your wife if she is menstruating, and you have returned after many days and may not be able to restrain yourself.)