صحيح الادب المفرد
Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad
باب لا يسب والديه
Not insulting one's parents
Hadith Number: 21
21/27 (صحيح) عن عبد الله بن عمرو قال: قال: النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم:" من الكبائر ان يشتم الرجل والديه". فقالوا: كيف يشتم؟ قال:"يشتم الرجل، فيشتم اباه وامه".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Among the major sins is that a person abuses his parents." The Companions asked in astonishment: How can anyone abuse his parents? He replied: "He abuses another man, so that man (in response) abuses his father and his mother."
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح)
Hadith Number: 22
22/28 (حسن الإسناد) عن عبد الله بن عمرو بن العاص قال::"من الكبائر عند الله تعالى ان يستسب الرجل لوالده".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Amr bin al-As (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: Among the major sins is that a person becomes the cause of abuse for his own father.
تخریج الحدیث: (حسن الإسناد)
باب عقوبة عقوق الوالدين
Punishment for disobedience to parents
Hadith Number: 23
23/29 (صحيح) عن ابي بكرة، عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:"ما من ذنب اجدر ان يعجل لصاحبه العقوبة مع ما يدخر له؛ من البغى وقطيعة الرحم".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Bakrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "There is no sin more deserving that its doer be hastily punished (in this world), along with what is stored for him (in the Hereafter), than oppression and severing ties of kinship."
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح)
باب دعوة الوالدين
Supplication of parents
Hadith Number: 24
24/32 (حسن) عن ابي هريرة قال: قال النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم:"ثلاث دعوات مستجابات لهن، لا شك فيهن: دعوة المظلوم، ودعوة المسافر، ودعوة الوالد على ولده".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "There are three types of supplications that are accepted, about whose acceptance there is no doubt: the supplication of the oppressed, the supplication of the traveler, and the supplication of a father against his son."
تخریج الحدیث: (حسن)
Hadith Number: 25
25/33 (صحيح) عن ابي هريرة قال: سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول:"ما تكلم مولود من الناس في مهد إلا عيسى بن مريم صلى الله عليه [وسلم] وصاحب جريج" قيل: يا نبي الله! وما صاحب جريج؟ قال:"فإن جريجا كان رجلا راهبا في صومعة له، وكان راعي بقر ياوي إلى اسفل صومعته، وكانت امراة من اهل القرية تختلف إلى الراعي، فاتت امه يوما فقالت: يا جريج! وهو يصلي، فقال في نفسه - وهو يصلي - امي وصلاتي؟ فراى ان يؤثر صلاته، ثم صرخت به الثانية، فقال في نفسه: امي وصلاتي؟ فراى ان يؤثر صلاته. ثم صرخت به الثالثة فقال: امي وصلاتى. فراى ان يؤثر صلاته. فلما لم يجبها قالت: لا اماتك الله يا جريج! حتى تنظر في وجه المومسات. ثم انصرفت فاتي الملك بتلك المراة ولدت (1). ولدت فقال: ممن؟ قالت: من جريج. قال: اصاحب الصومعة؟ قالت: نعم. قال: اهدموا صومعته واتوني به، فضربوا صومعته بالفئوس، حتى وقعت. فجعلوا يده إلى عنقه بحبل؛ ثم انطلق به، فمر به على المومسات، فرآهن فتبسم، وهن ينظرن إليه في الناس. فقال الملك: ما تزعم هذه؟ قال: ما تزعم؟ قال: تزعم ان ولدها منك. قال: انت تزعمين؟ قالت: نعم. قال: اين هذا الصغير؟ قالوا: هذا في حجرها، فاقبل عليه. فقال: من ابوك؟ قال: راعي البقر. قال الملك: انجعل صومعتك من ذهب؟ قال: لا. قال: من فضة؟ قال: لا. قال: فما نجعلها؟ قال: ردوها كما كانت. قال: فما الذي تبسمت؟ قال: امرا عرفته، ادركتني دعوة امي، ثم اخبرهم".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) say: "No child has spoken in the cradle except ‘Isa ibn Maryam (peace be upon him) and the child of Jurayj." The people asked: O Prophet of Allah! Who is the child of Jurayj? He said: "Jurayj was a devout worshipper and a monk, and he was in his place of worship. A cowherd used to stay at night beneath his place of worship. A woman from among the people of that village used to come and go to that cowherd. One day, Jurayj’s mother came to him and said: O Jurayj! And he was praying. Jurayj thought to himself while he was praying: My mother is calling me and I am praying. He thought to himself to give preference to his prayer. Then she called out to him again. He thought: My mother is calling me and I am praying, so he decided to give preference to his prayer. Then for the third time she called out. Again he thought: My mother is calling me and I am praying. He decided to give preference to his prayer. When Jurayj did not answer his mother, she said: O Jurayj! May Allah not let you die until you have faced immoral women. Then she went away. That (village) woman was brought to the king, and she had given birth to a child. The king asked: Whose boy is this? She said: Jurayj’s. The king said: The one who stays in the place of worship? She said: Yes. The king ordered: Demolish Jurayj’s place of worship and bring him to me. The people attacked his place of worship with axes until it fell down. They tied his hands to his neck with ropes. Then he was brought. He was made to pass by the immoral women, and when he saw them, he smiled, and they were looking at him among the people. The king said (to Jurayj): (Do you know) what this woman is saying? He said: What is she saying? He said: She is saying that this child is from you. He said to the woman: Are you saying this? She said: Yes. Jurayj said: Where is the little child? They said: He is in her lap. So he turned towards him and asked the child: Who is your father? The child said: The cowherd. The king said: Shall I have your place of worship built of gold? Jurayj said: No. He said: Of silver? He said: No. He said: What shall we build it of? He said: Build it as it was. The king said: What was the reason that you smiled? Jurayj said: It was a matter that I knew. My mother’s supplication against me had reached me. Then he narrated the whole story to the people."
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح)
باب عرض الإسلام على الأم النصرانية
Presenting Islam to a Christian mother
Hadith Number: 26
26/34 (حسن) عن ابي هريرة قال: ما سمع بي احد، يهودي ولا نصراني إلا احبني، إن امي كنت اريدها على الإسلام فتابى، فقلت لها فابت، فاتيت النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقلت: ادع الله لها، فدعا، فاتيتها وقد اجافت عليها الباب - فقالت: يا ابا هريرة! إني اسلمت، فاخبرت النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم، فقلت: ادع الله لي ولامي، فقال:"اللهم! عبدك ابو هريرة وامه، احبهما إلى الناس".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) who says: Whoever among the Christians and Jews hears about me, will love me. Whenever I tried to persuade my mother to accept Islam, she would refuse. I asked her (once again to become Muslim), but she refused. So I went to the service of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and said: Pray to Allah for my mother. So the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) prayed. After that, I went to my mother. She had closed the door. She said: O Abu Hurairah! I have become Muslim. I informed the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and said: Pray for me and my mother. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: «اللَّهُمَّ، عَبْدُكَ أَبُو هُرَيْرَةَ وَأُمُّهُ، أَحِبَّهُمَا إِلَى النَّاسِ» "O Allah! Your servant Abu Hurairah and his mother—make both of them beloved in the eyes of the people."
تخریج الحدیث: (حسن)
باب بر الوالدين بعد موتهما
Kindness to parents after their death
Hadith Number: 27
27/36 (حسن الإسناد) عن ابي هريرة قال:" ترفع للميت بعد موته درجته. فيقول: اي رب! اي شيء هذه؟ فيقال:"ولدك استغفر لك".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah, may Allah be pleased with him, who said: The ranks of the deceased are elevated even after his death. So he asks: O my Lord! Which deed is it because of which my ranks have been elevated? It is said: Your son has sought forgiveness for you.
تخریج الحدیث: (حسن الإسناد)
Hadith Number: 28
28/37 (صحيح الإسناد) عن محمد بن سيرين قال: كنا عند ابي هريرة ليلة، فقال:"اللهم اغفر لابي هريرة، ولامي، ولمن استغفر لهما" قال لي محمد: فنحن نستغفر لهما؛ حتى ندخل في دعوة ابي هريرة.
It is narrated from Muhammad bin Sirin that he said: One night we were with Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), so he said: «اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لأَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، وَلِأُمِّي، وَلِمَنِ اسْتَغْفَرَ لَهُمَا» "O Allah! Forgive me and my mother, and forgive all those who seek forgiveness for both of us." Muhammad said to me: We will continue to seek forgiveness for both of them so that we may be included in the supplication of Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him).
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح الإسناد)
Hadith Number: 29
29/38 (صحيح) عن ابي هريرة؛ ان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:" إذا مات العبد انقطع عنه عمله إلا من ثلاث: صدقة جارية، او علم ينتفع به، او ولد صالح يدعو له".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah, may Allah be pleased with him, that the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "When a person dies, his deeds come to an end except for three: ongoing charity, knowledge from which benefit is derived, or a righteous child who prays for him."
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح)
Hadith Number: 30
30/39 (صحيح) عن ابن عباس، ان رجلا قال: يا رسول الله! إن امي توفيت ولم توص، افينفعها ان اتصدق عنها؟ قال:"نعم".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them) that a man said: O Messenger of Allah! My mother has passed away and she did not make any will. If I give charity on her behalf, will it benefit her? The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Yes."
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح)