صحيح الادب المفرد
Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad
باب من وصل رحمه فى الجاهلية ثم أسلم
Maintaining ties in pre-Islamic times then accepting Islam
Hadith Number: 51
51/70 عن حكيم بن حزام؛ انه قال للنبي صلى الله عليه وسلم: ارايت امورا كنت اتحنث بها في الجاهلية؛ من صلة، وعتاقة، وصدقة، فهل لي فيها اجر؟ قال حكيم: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم:"اسلمت على ما سلف من خير".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Hakim bin Hizam (may Allah be pleased with him) that he asked the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him): What is your opinion about those acts of worship that I used to do in the days of ignorance, such as maintaining ties of kinship, freeing slaves, and giving charity? Will I also receive reward for them? Hakim says that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "You have accepted Islam along with all the good deeds you did before (in the days of ignorance)." (That is, you will also receive their reward.)
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح)
باب صلة ذي الرحم المشرك والهدية
Maintaining ties with a polytheist relative and giving gifts
Hadith Number: 52
52/71 عن ابن عمر: راى عمر حلة سيراء(1) فقال: يا رسول الله! لو اشتريت هذه، فلبستها يوم الجمعة، وللوفود إذا اتوك. فقال: يا عمر! إنما يلبس هذه من لا خلاق له". ثم اهدي النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم منها حلل، فاهدى إلى عمر منها حلة. فجاء عمر إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فقال: يا رسول الله! بعثت إلي هذه، وقد سمعتك قلت فيها ما قلت! قال:"إني لم اهدها لك لتلبسها. إنما اهديتها إليك لتبيعها، او لتكسوها". فاهداها عمر لاخ له من امه مشرك.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) that once Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) saw a cloak in which some silk was mixed, so he said: "O Messenger of Allah! If you buy this cloak and wear it on Fridays or when delegations come to you." So the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "O Umar! Only those people wear it who have no share (in the Hereafter)." After that, some of those cloaks were given to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). So the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) sent one of those cloaks to Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him). So Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah! You have sent this to me, even though I have heard from you about it." The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "I did not give it to you so that you wear it, but I gave it to you so that you may sell it, or make someone else wear it, or give it to someone." So Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) gave it to his half-brother, who was a polytheist.
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح)
باب تعلموا من أنسابكم ما تصلون به أرحامكم
Learning lineage to maintain family ties
Hadith Number: 53
53/72 عن جبير بن مطعم انه سمع عمر بن الخطاب رضي الله عنه يقول على المنبر:"تعلموا انسابكم، ثم صلوا ارحامكم، والله إنه ليكون بين الرجل وبين اخيه الشيء، ولو يعلم الذي بينه وبينه من داخلة الرحم، لاوزعه ذلك عن انتهاكه".
53/72 From Jubayr ibn Mut'im, who heard Umar ibn al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, say on the pulpit: "Learn your genealogies, then maintain your ties of kinship. By Allah, there may be something between a man and his brother, but if he knew what was between them of the bond of the womb, that would restrain him from violating it."
تخریج الحدیث: (حسن الإسناد)
Hadith Number: 54
54/73 - عن ابن عباس؛ انه قال:" احفظوا انسابكم، تصلوا ارحامكم؛ فإنه لا بعد بالرحم إذا قربت، وإن كانت بعيدة، ولا قرب بها إذا بعدت، وإن كانت قريبة، وكل رحم اتيه يوم القيامة امام صاحبها، تشهد له بصلة؛ إن كان وصلها، وعليه بقطيعة؛ إن كان قطعها".
54/73 - From Ibn Abbas; he said: "Preserve your lineages, and you will maintain your ties of kinship; for there is no distance with kinship when it is maintained, even if it is far, and there is no closeness with it when it is severed, even if it is near. Every kinship will come on the Day of Resurrection before its owner, testifying for him if he maintained it, and against him if he severed it."
باب مولى القوم من أنفسهم
Client of a people is one of them
Hadith Number: 55
55/75 عن رفاعة بن رافع؛ ان النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال عمر رضي الله عنه:"اجمع لي قومك". فجمعهم، فلما حضروا باب النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم دخل عليه عمر فقال: قد جمعت لك قومي، فسمع ذلك الانصار، فقالوا: قد نزل في قريش الوحي، فجاء المستمع والناظر ما يقال لهم، فخرج النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم، فقام بين اظهرهم، فقال:"هل فيكم من غيركم؟" قالوا نعم فينا حليفنا وابن اختنا وموالينا. قال النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم:"حليفنا منا، وابن اختنا منا، وموالينا منا، وانتم تسمعون: إن اوليائي منكم المتقون؛ فإن كنتم اولئك فذاك، وإلا فانظروا لا ياتي الناس بالاعمال يوم القيامة، وتاتون بالاثقال، فيعرض عنكم" ثم نادى فقال:"يا ايها الناس! - ورفع يديه يضعهما على رؤوس قريش - ايها الناس! إن قريشا اهل امانة، من بغى بهم - قال: زهير اظنه قال: العواثر(1) - كبه الله لمنخريه" يقول ذلك ثلاث مرات.
55/75 From Rifa‘ah ibn Rafi‘; that the Prophet, peace be upon him, said to ‘Umar, may Allah be pleased with him: "Gather your people for me." So he gathered them, and when they arrived at the door of the Prophet, peace be upon him, ‘Umar entered upon him and said: I have gathered my people for you. The Ansar heard of this and said: Revelation has descended upon Quraysh, so those who wished to listen and observe what would be said to them came. The Prophet, peace be upon him, came out and stood among them and said: "Is there anyone among you who is not of you?" They said: Yes, among us is our ally, the son of our sister, and our freedmen. The Prophet, peace be upon him, said: "Our ally is one of us, the son of our sister is one of us, and our freedmen are one of us. And you hear: Indeed, my friends among you are the righteous; if you are those, then so be it, otherwise beware lest people come on the Day of Resurrection with deeds, and you come with burdens, and He will turn away from you." Then he called out and said: "O people! – and he raised his hands and placed them on the heads of Quraysh – O people! Quraysh are people of trustworthiness; whoever seeks to harm them – (Zuhair said: I think he said: with misfortunes) – Allah will throw him down on his nose." He said this three times.
تخریج الحدیث: (حسن)
باب من عال جاريتين أو واحدة
Whoever supports two girls or one
Hadith Number: 56
56/76 عن عقبة بن عامر قال: سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول:" من كان له ثلاث بنات، وصبر عليهن، وكساهن من جدته(1)؛ كن له حجابا من النار".
56/76 From Uqbah ibn Amir who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, say: "Whoever has three daughters, and is patient with them, and clothes them from his wealth, they will be a shield for him from the Fire."
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح)
Hadith Number: 57
57/77 عن ابن عباس عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: ما من مسلم تدركه ابنتان، فيحسن صحبتهما، إلا ادخلتاه الجنة".
57/77 From Ibn Abbas, from the Prophet, peace be upon him, who said: "No Muslim who is entrusted with two daughters and treats them kindly, but they will admit him to Paradise."
تخریج الحدیث: (حسن لغيره)
Hadith Number: 58
58/78 عن جابر بن عبد الله حدثهم قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم:"من كان له ثلاث بنات، يؤويهن، ويكفيهن، ويرحمهن، فقد وجبت له الجنة البتة". فقال رجل من بعض القوم: وثنتين يا رسول الله؟ قال:"وثنتين".
58/78 From Jabir ibn Abdullah, he narrated to them, he said: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "Whoever has three daughters, shelters them, provides for them, and shows mercy to them, Paradise is certainly guaranteed for him." A man from among the people said: And two, O Messenger of Allah? He said: "And two."
تخریج الحدیث: (حسن)
باب من عال ثلاث أخوات
Whoever supports three sisters
Hadith Number: 59
59/97 عن ابى سعيد الخدري؛ ان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:"لا يكون لاحد ثلاث بنات، او ثلاث اخوات فيحسن إليهن، إلا دخل الجنة".
59/97 From Abu Sa'id al-Khudri; that the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "No one has three daughters, or three sisters, and treats them well, except that he will enter Paradise."
تخریج الحدیث: (حسن)
باب فضل من عال ابنته المردودة
Virtue of supporting a returned daughter
Hadith Number: 60
60/82 عن المقدام بن معدي كرب ؛ انه سمع رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول:" ما اطعمت نفسك فهو لك صدقة، وما اطعمت ولدك فهو لك صدقة، وما اطعمت زوجك فهو لك صدقة، وما اطعمت خادمك فهو لك صدقة".
60/82 From al-Miqdam ibn Ma'dikarib; he heard the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, say: "Whatever you feed yourself is charity for you, and whatever you feed your child is charity for you, and whatever you feed your wife is charity for you, and whatever you feed your servant is charity for you."
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح)