It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Amr (may Allah be pleased with them both) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) saw a woman returning from a funeral. He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked her: "Where have you come from?" She said: I am coming from offering condolences to the family of this deceased. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "By Allah, if you had gone with them as far as the graveyard, you would not have seen Paradise until your father's grandfather sees it." This hadith is sahih (authentic) on the condition of the two Shaykhs (Bukhari and Muslim), but they did not record it.