Chapters
Hadith
Narrators
Biography: Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal (rh)

الفتح الربانی
Al-Fath al-Rabbani
كِتَابُ الْجَنَائِزِ
Book of Funerals
بَابُ الرُّخْصَةِ فِي الْبُكَاءِ مِنْ غَيْرِ نَوْحٍ
Chapter on the concession for weeping without wailing
Show diacritics
Hadith Number: 3075
عن ابن عباس رضي الله عنهما قال: لما مات عثمان بن مظعون رضي الله عنه قالت امراة: هنيئا لك الجنة عثمان بن مظعون! وفي رواية قالت امراته: هنيئا لك يا بن مظعون! بالجنة، فنظر رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم إليها نظرة غضب، فقال: ((وما يدريك؟))، قالت: يا رسول الله! فارسك وصاحبك؟ فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: ((إني رسول الله وما ادري ما يفعل بي (وفي رواية ولا به)))، فاشفق الناس على عثمان، فلما ماتت زينب (وفي رواية: رقية) ابنة رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: ((الحقي بسلفنا الصالح الخير عثمان بن مظعون))، فبكت النساء، فجعل عمر يضربهن بسوطه فاخذ رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم بيده وقال: ((مهلا يا عمر!))، ثم قال: ((ابكين وإياكن ونعيق الشيطان))، ثم قال: ((إن ما كان من العين والقلب فمن الله عز وجل ومن الرحمة، وما كان من اليد واللسان فمن الشيطان))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) that when Sayyiduna Uthman bin Maz'oon (may Allah be pleased with him) passed away, a woman said: "O Uthman bin Maz'oon! Congratulations to you for Paradise." In another narration, it is mentioned: His wife said: "O son of Maz'oon! Congratulations to you for Paradise." Upon hearing this, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) looked at her angrily and said: "How do you know?" She said: "O Messenger of Allah! He was your horseman and companion." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "By Allah! I do not know what will be done with me, even though I am the Messenger of Allah." In another narration, he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I do not know what will happen to me and what will happen to him." Upon hearing this, the people became concerned about Sayyiduna Uthman bin Maz'oon (may Allah be pleased with him). When the daughter of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), Sayyida Zainab or Sayyida Ruqayyah (may Allah be pleased with them), passed away, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Join our righteous and pious predecessor, Uthman bin Maz'oon." Then the women began to weep, and Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) started hitting them with a whip, but the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) stopped his hand and said: "Umar, wait." Then he said: "Weep, weep, but avoid the wailing of Satan." After that, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The weeping that is from the eyes and the heart is from Allah Almighty and is due to the feeling of mercy, and that which is from the hands and the tongue is from Satan."


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: اسناده ضعيف
See Further Takhrij & Explanation
Show diacritics
Hadith Number: 3076
(وعنه من طريق ثان مثله) وزاد بعد قوله: ((فمن الشيطان)) وقعد رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم على شفير القبر وفاطمة إلى جنبه تبكي، فجعل النبي صلى الله عليه وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم يمسح عين فاطمة بثوبه رحمة لها
(Second chain of narration) In this, after "then it is from Satan," there is this addition: Then the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, sat by the edge of the grave, and Lady Fatimah, may Allah be pleased with her, also sat by his side and began to weep. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, showed compassion to her and began to wipe her eyes with his garment.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: أخرجه مسلم: 2315
See Further Takhrij & Explanation
Show diacritics
Hadith Number: 3077
عن انس بن مالك رضي الله عنه في قصة موت إبراهيم بن النبي رضي الله عنه قال: فجاء رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فدعا الصبي فضمه إليه، قال انس رضي الله عنه: فلقد رايته بين يدي رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم وهو يكيد بنفسه، قال: فدمعت عينا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم، قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: ((تدمع العين ويحزن القلب، ولا نقول إلا ما يرضي ربنا عز وجل، والله! إنا بك يا إبراهيم لمحزونون))
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates the incident of the death of the son of the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), Sayyiduna Ibrahim (may Allah be pleased with him): The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came there and called for the child, then held him close to his chest. I saw that he was in the throes of death at that time, and the eyes of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) filled with tears. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: The eyes are shedding tears and the heart is grieved, but we will only say that which will please our Lord. O Ibrahim! By Allah, we are certainly grieved because of your departure.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: أخرجه البخاري: 4462
See Further Takhrij & Explanation
Show diacritics
Hadith Number: 3078
وعنه ايضا ان فاطمة رضي الله عنها بكت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فقالت: يا ابتاه من ربه ما ادناه، يا ابتاه إلى جبريل انعاه، يا ابتاه جنة الفردوس ماواه
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that Sayyida Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) wept at the death of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O dear father! How close you have become to your Lord. O dear father! I am informing Jibreel of your passing. O dear father! Jannat al-Firdaws is your abode.

Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) says: I went with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) to an Ansari man who was near death, and his family were weeping. I said: Are you weeping in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)? The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Leave them, as long as this man is with them, let them weep. When it becomes obligatory, then they should not weep.

Jabir says: I narrated this hadith to Umar bin Humaid Qurashi, and he asked: What is the meaning of“when it becomes obligatory”? He said: When he is placed in the grave.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: حديث صحيح۔ أخرجه النسائي: 6/ 52
See Further Takhrij & Explanation
Show diacritics
Hadith Number: 3079
عن محمد بن عمرو بن عطاء بن علقمة انه كان جالسا مع ابن عمر رضي الله عنه في السوق ومعه سلمة بن الازرق إلى جنبه فمر بجنازة يتبعها بكاء، فقال عبد الله بن عمر رضي الله عنهما: لو ترك اهل هذا الميت البكاء لكان خيرا لميتهم، فقال سلمة بن الازرق: تقول ذلك يا ابا عبد الرحمن؟ قال: نعم، اقوله، قال: إني سمعت ابا هريرة رضي الله عنه ومات ميت من اهل مروان فاجتمع النساء يبكين عليه، فقال مروان: قم يا عبد الملك! فانههن ان يبكين، فقال ابو هريرة رضي الله عنه: دعهن فإنه مات ميت من آل النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فاجتمع النساء يبكين عليه، فقام عمر بن الخطاب ينهاهن ويطردهن، فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: ((دعهن يا ابن الخطاب! فإن العين دامعة، والفؤاد مصاب، وإن العهد حديث))، فقال ابن عمر رضي الله عنه: انت سمعت هذا من ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه؟ قال: نعم، قال: ااثرته عن النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم؟ قال: نعم، قال: فالله ورسوله اعلم
Muhammad bin Amr says: I was sitting in the market with Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), and Salamah bin Azraq was also present beside him. A funeral passed by, and the people with it were weeping. Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: If these relatives of the deceased would stop weeping, it would be better for the deceased. Salamah bin Azraq said: Abu Abdur Rahman! Are you saying this? He replied: Yes, I am saying it. Salamah bin Azraq said: I heard from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), when someone from the family of Marwan passed away, women gathered and began to weep. Marwan said: Abdul Malik! Get up and go forbid these women from weeping. Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Let them weep. A relative of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) passed away, and women gathered and began to weep over him. Sayyiduna Umar bin Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) got up to stop and scold them, but the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Ibn Khattab, leave them; the eyes are shedding tears, the heart is grieved, and the time of calamity is near. Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Did you yourself hear this hadith from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him)? He said: Yes. He asked: Did he narrate it from the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)? He said: Yes. Upon hearing this, he said: Allah and His Messenger know best.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: اسناده ضعيف لجھالة حال سلمة بن الأزرق أخرجه ابن ماجه: 1587
See Further Takhrij & Explanation
Show diacritics
Hadith Number: 3080
عن إبراهيم الهجري عن عبد الله بن ابي اوفى رضي الله عنه وكان من اصحاب الشجرة، فماتت ابنة له وكان يتبع جنازتها على بغلة خلفها، فجعل النساء يبكين، فقال: لا ترثين، فإن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم نهى عن المراثي، فتفيض إحداكن من عبراتها ما شاءت، كبر عليها اربعا ثم قام بعد الرابعة قدر ما بين التكبيرتين يدعو، ثم قال: كان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم يصنع في الجنازة هكذا
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abi Awfa (may Allah be pleased with him), who was among the Companions who pledged allegiance at Ridwan, his daughter passed away. He was riding a mule behind the funeral procession, when the women began to weep. He said: Do not recite elegies, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade elegies. However, you may shed as many tears as you wish. Then he said four takbirs in the funeral prayer, and after the fourth takbir, he stood for as long as the interval between two takbirs and continued to supplicate. Then he said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) used to perform the funeral prayer in this manner as well.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: اسناده ضعيف لضعف ابراهيم بن مسلم الھجري شيخ الباني نے ابن ماجه كي روايت كو صحيح كها
See Further Takhrij & Explanation
Show diacritics
Hadith Number: 3081
عن ابن عباس رضي الله عنهما قال: جاء النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم إلى بعض بناته، وهي في السوق، فاخذها ووضعها في حجره حتى قبضت فدمعت عيناه فبكت ام ايمن، فقيل لها: اتبكين عند رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم؟ فقالت: الا ابكي ورسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم يبكي، قال: ((إني لم ابك، وهذه رحمة، إن المؤمن تخرج نفسه من بين جنبيه وهو يحمد الله عز وجل (وفي لفظ) إن المؤمن بكل خير على كل حال، إن نفسه تخرج من بين جنبيه وهو يحمد الله عز وجل))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came to one of his daughters when she was in the throes of death. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) held her and placed her in his lap. At that moment, her soul departed. Tears came to the eyes of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and Sayyida Umm Ayman (may Allah be pleased with her) also began to weep. Someone said to her: Are you weeping in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)? She replied: Why should I not weep, when the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) is also weeping? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: I am not weeping; this is mercy. The soul of the believer departs from his sides while he is praising Allah Almighty. In another narration, it is stated: The believer is in all kinds of goodness in every condition; when his soul is departing from his sides, even then he is praising Allah Almighty.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: حديث حسن۔ أخرجه الترمذي في ’’الشمائل‘‘: 318
See Further Takhrij & Explanation
Show diacritics
Hadith Number: 3082
عن اسامة بن زيد رضي الله عنه قال: ارسلت إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم بعض بناته ان صبيا لها ابنا او ابنة قد احتضرت فاشهدنا، قال: فارسل إليها يقرا السلام، ويقول: ((إن لله ما اخذ وما اعطى، وكل شيء عنده إلى اجل مسمى، فلتصبر ولتحتسب))، فارسلت تقسم عليه، فقام وقمنا فرفع الصبي إلى حجر او في حجر رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ونفسه تقعقع، وفي القوم سعد بن عبادة وابي احسب، ففاضت عينا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فقال له سعد: ما هذا يا رسول الله؟ قال: ((إن هذه رحمة يضعها الله في قلوب من يشاء من عباده، وإنما يرحم الله من عباده الرحماء))
Sayyiduna Usama bin Zaid (may Allah be pleased with him) says: The daughter of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) (Sayyida Zainab, may Allah be pleased with her) sent word to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) that her son or daughter was in the throes of death, so please come to us. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sent greetings to his daughter in reply and said: Whatever Allah takes and whatever He gives, everything belongs to Him, and with Him everything has an appointed time, so she should be patient and hope for reward. But this time, the daughter swore an oath and called the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) again. So the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) got up and we also went along with him. The child was placed in the lap of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and at that time his soul was departing. Among the people present was Sayyiduna Sa’d bin Ubadah (may Allah be pleased with him), and I think Sayyiduna Ubayy (may Allah be pleased with him) was also there. The eyes of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) overflowed with tears. Sayyiduna Sa’d (may Allah be pleased with him) said: O Messenger of Allah! What is this? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: This is mercy, which Allah places in the hearts of whichever of His servants He wills, and Allah is merciful to His merciful servants.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: أخرجه البخاري: 5655
See Further Takhrij & Explanation
Show diacritics
Hadith Number: 3083
(وعنه من طريق ثان) قال: اتي رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم باميمة ابنة زينب ونفسها تقعقع، كانها في شن، فقال: ((لله ما اخذ ولله ما اعطى، وكل إلى اجل مسمى))، قال: فدمعت عيناه، فقال له سعد بن عبادة: يا رسول الله! اتبكي؟ اولم تنه عن البكاء؟ فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم: ((إنما هي رحمة جعلها الله في قلوب عباده، وإنما يرحم الله من عباده الرحماء))
(Second Chain) Sayyida Umaymah bint Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) was brought to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) while she was in the throes of death and looked like an old waterskin. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whatever Allah takes and whatever He gives, all belongs to Him, and everything has an appointed time." As soon as he said this, tears came to the eyes of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). Sayyiduna Sa'd bin 'Ubadah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah! Are you weeping? Did you not forbid weeping?" The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This is mercy, which Allah has placed in the hearts of His servants, and Allah shows mercy only to those of His servants who are merciful."


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: انظر الحديث بالطريق الأول ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 22142
See Further Takhrij & Explanation
Show diacritics
Hadith Number: 3084
(وعنه من طريق ثالث) قال: ارسلت ابنة النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم إن ابني يقبض، فاتنا، … فذكر الحديث بنحو ما تقدم
(Third chain of narration) The daughter of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) sent a message to him (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) that her son was dying, so please come… . Al-Hadith.


تخریج الحدیث:
حكم: انظر الحديث بالطريق الأول ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 22132
See Further Takhrij & Explanation