سلسله احاديث صحيحه
Silsilat al-Ahadith al-Sahihah
Seeing the woman before marriage
Numbering by, Al-Albani: 98, Fiqh-based: ,1436
-" إذا القي في قلب امرئ خطبة امراة فلا باس ان ينظر إليها".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Sahl bin Abi Hathmah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "When a man feels a desire in his heart to propose to a woman, he should (first) look at her; there is no harm in that."
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 98
Numbering by, Al-Albani: 99, Fiqh-based: ,1437
-" إذا خطب احدكم المراة، فإن استطاع ان ينظر إلى ما يدعوه إلى نكاحها فليفعل".
Sayyiduna Jabir bin Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "When any one of you sends a proposal to a woman, he should look at that quality in her because of which he wants to marry her."
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 99
Numbering by, Al-Albani: 97, Fiqh-based: ,1438
-" إذا خطب احدكم امراة فلا جناح عليه ان ينظر إليها إذا كان إنما ينظر إليها لخطبته، وإن كانت لا تعلم".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Humayd (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "When a man sends a proposal of marriage to a woman, there is no harm in looking at her, even if she is unaware of it, provided that he is looking at her because of the proposal."
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 97
Numbering by, Al-Albani: 95, Fiqh-based: ,1439
-" انظر إليها، فإن في اعين الانصار شيئا. يعني الصغر".
Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that a man wanted to marry an Ansari woman. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Look at her, for the eyes of the Ansar (women) are (generally) small."
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 95
Numbering by, Al-Albani: 96, Fiqh-based: ,1440
-" انظر إليها فإنه احرى ان يؤدم بينكما".
Sayyiduna Mughirah bin Shu’bah (may Allah be pleased with him) sent a marriage proposal to a woman. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him:“Look at her, for it is more likely that love will be established between you because of that.”
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 96
Whom to choose for marriage
Numbering by, Al-Albani: 1022, Fiqh-based: ,1441
-" إذا اتاكم من ترضون خلقه ودينه فزوجوه، إلا تفعلوا تكن فتنة في الارض وفساد عريض".
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "If someone whose character and religion you are pleased with comes to you (with a marriage proposal), then marry (your daughter or ward) to him. If you do not do so, there will be widespread turmoil and corruption on the earth."
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 1022
Basis of compatibility between bride and groom
Numbering by, Al-Albani: 1067, Fiqh-based: ,1442
-" تخيروا لنطفكم، فانكحوا الاكفاء وانكحوا إليهم".
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Choose (good) women for your offspring, marry women who are compatible, and give (your daughters, etc.) in marriage to compatible men."
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 1067
Numbering by, Al-Albani: 307, Fiqh-based: ,1443
-" تنكح المراة على إحدى خصال ثلاثة، تنكح المراة على مالها، وتنكح المراة على جمالها، وتنكح المراة على دينها، فخذ ذات الدين والخلق تربت يمينك".
Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A woman is married for three qualities: ① She is married for her wealth, ② or she is married for her beauty, ③ or she is married for her religion. May your right hand be dust-covered, choose the woman who possesses religion and good character."
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 307
Announcing the marriage
Numbering by, Al-Albani: 1463, Fiqh-based: ,1444
-" اشيدوا النكاح، اشيدوا النكاح، هذا النكاح لا السفاح".
Abdullah bin Abu Abdullah bin Hubar bin Aswad narrates from his father, and he from his grandfather, Sayyiduna Hubar (may Allah be pleased with him), that he married off his daughter and there was a one-sided drum and a daf with them (and they were using them). When the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came out and heard the sounds, he asked: "What is this (why are these sounds being made)?" It was said that Hubar has married off his daughter. So the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Announce the marriage, announce the marriage, this is marriage, not fornication." One narrator says: I asked: What is «كبر» ? He said: It is called a big drum. And a type of musical instrument is called «غرابيل» .
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 1463
Which is the best marriage?
Numbering by, Al-Albani: 1842, Fiqh-based: ,1445
-" خير النكاح ايسره".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Uqbah bin Amir (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The best marriage is the one which is the easiest."
Numbering of Silsilah Ahadith Sahiha by Albani: 1842