صحيح الادب المفرد
Sahih al-Adab al-Mufrad
باب حسن الخلق
Good character
Hadith Number: 208
208/274(صحيح)- عن عائشة رضي الله عنها؛ انها قالت:"ما خير رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم بين امرين إلا اختار ايسرهما؛ ما لم يكن إثما، فإذا كان إثما كان ابعد الناس منه، وما انتقم رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم لنفسه، إلا ان تنتهك حرمة الله تعالى، فينتقم لله عز وجل بها".
Narrated from Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her): She said, whenever the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was given a choice between two matters, he would choose the easier of the two, as long as it was not sinful. But if it was sinful, then he would be the farthest of all people from it. And the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) never took revenge for his own sake, except when one of the sanctities of Allah the Exalted was violated, then he would take revenge for the sake of Allah the Exalted.
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Hadith Number: 209
209/275 عن عبد الله (بن مسعود) قال:"إن الله تعالى قسم بينكم اخلاقكم، كما قسم بينكم ارزاقكم، وإن الله تعالى يعطي المال من احب ومن لا يحب، ولا يعطي الإيمان إلا من يحب، فمن ضن بالمال ان ينفقه، وخاف العدو ان يجاهده، وهاب الليل ان يكابده، فليكثر من قول: لا إله إلا الله، وسبحان الله، والحمد لله، والله اكبر"(2).
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: Verily, Allah Almighty has distributed character among you just as He has distributed sustenance among you. And Allah gives wealth to those whom He loves and (also to) those whom He does not love. He has distributed character among you just as He has distributed your sustenance, and He gives faith only to those whom He loves. Whoever is miserly in spending wealth, fears to fight the enemy, and is afraid to endure the hardship of the night, then he should frequently recite these words: L «اَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ اللَّهُ، وَسُبْحَانَ اللهِ، وَالْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ، وَاللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ» .
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح موقوف في حكم المرفوع)
باب سخاوة النفس
Generosity of soul
Hadith Number: 210
210/276(صحيح)- عن ابي هريرة، عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:" ليس الغنى عن كثرة العرض، ولكن الغنى غنى النفس".
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that he (peace be upon him) said: "Wealth is not due to having a lot of possessions, but true wealth is the richness of the heart."
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح)
Hadith Number: 211
211/277 (صحيح) عن انس قال:" خدمت النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم عشر سنين، فما قال لي: اف قط، وما قال لي لشيء لم افعله: الا كنت فعلته؟ ولا لشيء فعلته: لم فعلته؟".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him), he said: I served the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) for ten years, but he never even said "uff" to me, and regarding something I did not do, he never said, "Why did you not do it?" And regarding something I did do, he never said, "Why did you do this?"
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Hadith Number: 212
212/278 عن انس بن مالك قال:" كان النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم رحيما، وكان لا ياتيه احد إلا وعده، وانجز له إن كان عنده، واقيمت الصلاة، وجاءه اعرابي فاخذ بثوبه فقال: إنما بقي من حاجتي يسيرة؛ واخاف انساها، فقام معه حتى فرغ من حاجته، ثم اقبل فصلى".
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) says that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) was very compassionate. When anyone came to him (for their need), he would make a promise to them and fulfill it, provided he had it with him. (Once) the iqamah for prayer was given and a Bedouin came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), grabbed his garment, and said: "I have a small need left, I fear I might forget it." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) went with him until his need was fulfilled, and then returned and led the prayer.
تخریج الحدیث: (حسن)
Hadith Number: 213
213/279(صحيح)- عن جابر قال:" ما سئل النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم شيئا فقال: لا"(1).
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) never said "no" in response to any request.
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Hadith Number: 214
214/280(صحيح الإسناد)- عن عبد الله بن الزبير قال: ما رايت امراتين اجود من عائشة واسماء، وجودهما مختلف، اما عائشة فكانت تجمع الشيء إلى الشيء، حتى إذا كان اجتمع عندها قسمت، واما اسماء فكانت لا تمسك شيئا لغد.
Narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Zubair (may Allah be pleased with him), he said: I have not seen any two women more generous than Sayyidah Asma (may Allah be pleased with her) and Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her). The manner of their generosity was different. Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) used to accumulate wealth, and when some wealth was collected with her, she would distribute it. As for Asma (may Allah be pleased with her), her way was that she would not save anything for the next day (i.e., she would spend whatever she had each day).
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح الإسناد)
باب الشح
Stinginess
Hadith Number: 215
215/281(صحيح)- عن ابي هريرة قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم:" لا يجتمع غبار في سبيل الله ودخان جهنم في جوف عبد ابدا، ولا يجتمع الشح والإيمان في قلب عبد ابدا".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "The dust encountered in the way of Allah and the smoke of Hell will never be combined in the belly of a servant. And (likewise) miserliness and faith can never be gathered together in the heart of a servant."
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Hadith Number: 216
216/283- عن عبد الله بن ربيعة قال: كنا جلوسا عند عبد الله – فذكروا رجلا، فذكروا من خلقه – فقال عبد الله: ارايتم لو قطعتم راسه اكنتم تستطيعون ان تعيدوه؟ قالوا: لا. قال: فيده؟ قالوا: لا. قال: فرجله؟ قالوا: لا. قال: فإنكم لا تستطيعون ان تغيروا خلقه؟ حتى تغيروا خلقه! إن النطفة لتستقر في الرحم اربعين ليلة، ثم تنحدر دما، ثم تكون علقة، ثم تكون مضغة، ثم يبعث الله ملكا. فيكتب: رزقه وخلقه، وشقيا او سعيدا".
It is narrated from Abdullah bin Rabee’ah, he says: We were sitting with Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Mas’ood (may Allah be pleased with him), and he mentioned a man and described his character and habits. Abdullah said: Tell me, if you cut off this person’s head, can you then reattach it? The people said: No. He said: Well, if you cut off his hand? The people said: No. He said: And his stomach? The people said: No. He said: Then you cannot change his habits either until you change his physical structure. Indeed, the drop (of semen) remains in the womb for forty days, then it becomes blood and descends, then it becomes a clot, then it becomes a lump of flesh, then Allah sends an angel who writes down his provision, his character, and whether he will be fortunate or unfortunate.
تخریج الحدیث: (حسن الإسناد موقوفاً)
باب حسن الخلق إذا فقهوا
Good character with understanding
Hadith Number: 217
217/284(صحيح)- عن ابي هريرة قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم:" إن الرجل ليدرك بحسن خلقه، درجة القائم بالليل".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), he said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Indeed, a person, due to good character, attains the rank of one who stands (in prayer) at night."
تخریج الحدیث: (صحيح)