الفتح الربانی
Al-Fath al-Rabbani
بَابُ مَا جَاءَ فِي كَرَاهَةِ الْغِيْلَةِ وَالرُّحْصَةِ فِي الْعَزْلِ لاجل ذلِكَ
Chapter: What Has Been Reported Regarding Dislike of Gheelah and the Concession in Coitus Interruptus for That Reason
Hadith Number: 7087
عن اسماء بنت يزيد بن سكن الانصارية رضي الله عنها قالت سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم يقول لا تقتلوا اولادكم سرا فإن الغيل يدرك الفارس فيدعثره من فوق راسه قال علي اسماء بنت يزيد الانصارية قالت قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فذكر مثله
Sayyida Asma bint Yazid Ansariyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Do not kill your children secretly; indeed, ghilah affects the horseman and causes him to fall headlong.
تخریج الحدیث: «اسناده ضعيف، مهاجر بن ابي مسلم الانصاري لايحتمل تفرده، ثم انه معارَض بحديث صحيح، وھو الحديث الآتي بعده، أخرجه ابوداود: 3881، وابن ماجه: 2012، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 27590 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 28142»
حكم: اسناده ضعيف
Hadith Number: 7088
عن اسامة بن زيد رضي الله عنهما ان رجلا جاء إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فقال إني اعزل عن امراتي قال لم قال شفقة على ولدها او على اولادها فقال إن كان لذلك فلا ما ضار ذلك فارس ولا الروم
Sayyidah Judamah bint Wahb Asadiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: I intended to prohibit ghilah, but then I remembered that the Persians and Romans practice ghilah and it does not harm their children in any way.
تخریج الحدیث: «أخرجه مسلم: 1442، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 27035 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 22113»
حكم: أخرجه مسلم: 1442
Hadith Number: 7089
عن ابي سعيد الزرقي رضي الله عنه ان رجلا من اشجع سال النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم عن العزل فقال إن امراتي ترضع فقال النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم إن ما يقدر في الرحم فسيكون
Narrated by Sayyiduna Usama bin Zaid (may Allah be pleased with him): A man came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: I practice coitus interruptus with my wife. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: Why? He said: Out of compassion for her children. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: If that is the case, then surely do not practice coitus interruptus, for this thing has not harmed Persia and Rome in any way.
تخریج الحدیث: «أخرجه مسلم: 1443، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 21770 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 15824»
حكم: أخرجه مسلم: 1443
Hadith Number: 7090
۔ عن ابی سعید ن الزرقی ان رجلا من اشجع سأل النبی صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم عن العزل، فقال: ان امرأتی ترضع، فقال النبی صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم: ((ان ما یقدر فی الرحم فسیکون۔))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Saeed Zarqi (may Allah be pleased with him) that a man from the Ashja’ tribe asked the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) about coitus interruptus (‘azl) and said:“My wife is breastfeeding (and I fear that she may become pregnant).”The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) said:“Whatever has been decreed for the womb will certainly occur.”
تخریج الحدیث: «صحيح بشواهده، أخرجه النسائي: 6/ 108، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 15732 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية:0»
حكم: صحيح بشواهده
باب نهي الزوجين عن التحدث بما يجرى حال الوقاع
Chapter: Prohibition for Spouses to Speak About What Happens During Intercourse
Hadith Number: 7091
عن ابي نضرة عن رجل من الطفاوة قال نزلت على ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال ولم ادرك من صحابة رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم رجلا اشد تشميرا ولا اقوم على ضيف منه بينما انا عنده وهو على سرير له واسفل منه جارية سوداء ومعه كيس فيه حصى او نوى يقول سبحان الله سبحان الله حتى إذا انفذ ما في الكيس القاه إليها فجمعته فجعلته في الكيس ثم دفعته إليه فقال لي الا احدثك عني وعن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم قلت بلى قال فإني بينما انا اوعك في مسجد المدينة إذ دخل علي رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم المسجد فقال من احس الفتى الدوسي من احس الفتى الدوسي فقال له قائل هو ذاك يوعك في جانب المسجد حيث ترى يا رسول الله فجاء فوضع يده علي وقال لي معروفا فقمت فانطلق حتى قام في مقامه الذي يصلي فيه ومعه يومئذ صفان من رجال وصف من نساء او صفان من نساء وصف من رجال فاقبل عليهم فقال إن انساني الشيطان شيئا من صلاتي فليسبح القوم ولتصفق النساء فصلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ولم ينس من صلاته شيئا فلما سلم اقبل عليهم بوجهه فقال مجالسكم هل منكم من إذا اتى اهله اغلق بابه وارخى ستره ثم يخرج فيتحدث فيقول فعلت باهلي كذا وفعلت باهلي كذا فسكتوا فاقبل على النساء فقال هل منكن من تحدث فجثت فتاة كعاب على إحدى ركبتيها وتطاولت ليراها رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ويسمع كلامها فقالت إي والله إنهم ليحدثون وإنهن ليحدثن فقال هل تدرون ما مثل من فعل ذلك إن مثل من فعل ذلك مثل شيطان وشيطانة لقي احدهما صاحبه بالسكة قضى حاجته منها والناس ينظرون إليه ثم قال الا لا يفضين رجل إلى رجل ولا امراة إلى امراة إلا إلى ولد او والد قال وذكر ثالثة فنسيتها الا إن طيب الرجل ما وجد ريحه ولم يظهر لونه الا إن طيب النساء ما ظهر لونه ولم يوجد ريحه
It is narrated from a man of Banu Tufawah, who says: I stayed as a guest with Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him). Among the companions of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), I did not find anyone more serving than him, nor anyone who took better care of his guest than him. Once, I was sitting with him on a cot, and a black slave girl was sitting below. Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) had a pouch in which there were pebbles or date stones. He was saying "Subhan Allah, Subhan Allah" until whatever was in the pouch was finished. Then he threw the pouch towards the slave girl; she gathered the pebbles in the pouch and handed it back to Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him).
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Shall I not tell you an incident between me and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)? I said: Why not, please do tell. He said: I was lying in the mosque of Madinah, suffering from severe fever. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me in the mosque and asked: Has anyone seen the youth from Daws? Has anyone seen the youth from Daws? A man said: O Messenger of Allah! He is lying in a corner of the mosque, as you can see, suffering from fever. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me, placed his blessed hand upon me, and spoke to me kindly. I stood up and he walked on, until he (peace and blessings be upon him) stood at his place where he used to lead the prayer. That day, there were two rows of men and one row of women with him, or two rows of women and one row of men. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) faced them and said: If Satan causes me to forget something in my prayer, the men should say "Subhan Allah" and the women should clap their hands.
The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) led the prayer and did not forget. When he (peace and blessings be upon him) finished the prayer with salam, he turned to the people and said: Remain seated in your places. Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Has it ever happened that one of you goes to his wife, closes the door, hangs the curtain, then comes out and starts telling people that he did this and that with his wife, and that he did such and such act with her? The people remained silent. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) turned to the women and said: Is there anyone among you who does such things? A young girl with prominent breasts stood up on one knee and stretched herself so that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) could see her and hear her words, and she said: Yes, by Allah! Men also talk like this and women also talk like this.
Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Do you know what the example of one who does this is? His example is like that of a devil and a she-devil who meet each other in a street and fulfill their need there while people are watching them. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: No man should lie with another man, and no woman with another woman in such a way that there is no veil between them, except for parents and children. I have forgotten the third thing mentioned by the narrator. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Beware! The fragrance for men is that which has a scent but its color is not apparent. Beware! The fragrance for women is that whose color is apparent but its scent is not.
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Shall I not tell you an incident between me and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)? I said: Why not, please do tell. He said: I was lying in the mosque of Madinah, suffering from severe fever. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me in the mosque and asked: Has anyone seen the youth from Daws? Has anyone seen the youth from Daws? A man said: O Messenger of Allah! He is lying in a corner of the mosque, as you can see, suffering from fever. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me, placed his blessed hand upon me, and spoke to me kindly. I stood up and he walked on, until he (peace and blessings be upon him) stood at his place where he used to lead the prayer. That day, there were two rows of men and one row of women with him, or two rows of women and one row of men. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) faced them and said: If Satan causes me to forget something in my prayer, the men should say "Subhan Allah" and the women should clap their hands.
The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) led the prayer and did not forget. When he (peace and blessings be upon him) finished the prayer with salam, he turned to the people and said: Remain seated in your places. Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Has it ever happened that one of you goes to his wife, closes the door, hangs the curtain, then comes out and starts telling people that he did this and that with his wife, and that he did such and such act with her? The people remained silent. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) turned to the women and said: Is there anyone among you who does such things? A young girl with prominent breasts stood up on one knee and stretched herself so that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) could see her and hear her words, and she said: Yes, by Allah! Men also talk like this and women also talk like this.
Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Do you know what the example of one who does this is? His example is like that of a devil and a she-devil who meet each other in a street and fulfill their need there while people are watching them. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: No man should lie with another man, and no woman with another woman in such a way that there is no veil between them, except for parents and children. I have forgotten the third thing mentioned by the narrator. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Beware! The fragrance for men is that which has a scent but its color is not apparent. Beware! The fragrance for women is that whose color is apparent but its scent is not.
تخریج الحدیث: «اسناده ضعيف لجھالة الطفاوي، ولبعض قطع ھذا الحديث طرق وشواھد تقويه، أخرجه ابوداود: 2174، 4019، والترمذي باثر الحديث: 2787، واقتصر الترمذي علي قصة طيب الرجال، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 10977 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 10990»
حكم: اسناده ضعيف لجھالة الطفاوي
Hadith Number: 7092
عن ابي سعيد الخدري رضي الله عنه قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم الشياع حرام قال ابن لهيعة يعني به الذي يفتخر بالجماع
Narrated by Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Shi'a is forbidden. Shi'a means to boast about having intercourse.
تخریج الحدیث: «اسناده ضعيف لضعف دراج بن سمعان في روايته عن ابي الھيثم، أخرجه ابويعلي: 1396، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 11235 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 11255»
حكم: اسناده ضعيف لضعف دراج بن سمعان في روايته عن ابي الھيثم
Hadith Number: 7093
وعنه ايضا قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم إن من اعظم الامانة عند الله يوم القيامة الرجل يفضي إلى امراته وتفضي إليه ثم ينشر سرها
It is also narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: The greatest betrayal in the sight of Allah on the Day of Resurrection will be that a man goes to his wife and a woman goes to her husband, and then he begins to disclose her secret.
تخریج الحدیث: «أخرجه مسلم: 1437، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 11655 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 11678»
حكم: أخرجه مسلم: 1437
Hadith Number: 7094
عن اسماء بنت يزيد رضي الله عنها انها كانت عند رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم والرجال والنساء قعود عنده فقال لعل رجلا يقول ما يفعل باهله ولعل امراة تخبر بما فعلت مع زوجها فارم القوم فقلت إي والله يا رسول الله إنهن ليقلن وإنهم ليفعلون قال فلا تفعلوا فإنما ذلك مثل الشيطان لقي شيطانة في طريق فغشيها والناس ينظرون
Narrated from Sayyida Asma bint Yazid (may Allah be pleased with her) that men and women were sitting with the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). He (peace be upon him) said: It is possible that a man tells others what he does with his wife, and similarly, a wife tells others what she does with her husband. The people remained silent. I (Asma) said: Yes, O Messenger of Allah! By Allah, women do this and men do this as well. He (peace be upon him) said: Do not do this. Its example is just like that of a devil who meets a she-devil on the road, and he has intercourse with her there while people are watching.
تخریج الحدیث: «اسناده ضعيف لضعف شهر بن حوشب، أخرجه الطبراني في ’’الكبير‘‘: 24/ 414، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة:27583 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 28135»
حكم: اسناده ضعيف لضعف شهر بن حوشب
بَابُ النَّهْي عَنْ إِثْنَانِ الْمَرْأَةِ فِي دُبُرِهَا وَجَوَازِ التَّحْبِيْبِ وَهُوَ اتْيَانُهَا مِنْ دُبُرِهَا فِي قُبُلِهَا
Chapter: Prohibition of Anal Intercourse with Women and Permissibility of Approaching from Behind in the Vagina
Hadith Number: 7095
عن علي رضي الله عنه قال جاء اعرابي إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم فقال يا رسول الله إنا نكون بالبادية فتخرج من احدنا الرويحية فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم إن الله عز وجل لا يستحيي من الحق إذا فعل احدكم فليتوضا ولا تاتوا النساء في اعجازهن وقال مرة في ادبارهن
Narrated from Sayyiduna Ali bin Taliq (may Allah be pleased with him): A Bedouin came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah! We live in the desert and sometimes one of us passes wind. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Allah does not shy away from the truth. When this happens to someone, he should perform ablution, and do not approach women from behind.
تخریج الحدیث: «اسناده ضعيف، مسلم بن سلام لم يرو عنه غير واحد ولم يوثقه غير ابن حبان، وادراج ھذا الحديث في مسند علي بن ابي طالب B خطأ، فانه من مسند علي بن طلق، أخرجه ابوداود: 205، 1005، والترمذي: 1164، 1166، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 655 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 655»
حكم: اسناده ضعيف
Hadith Number: 7096
عن ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه عن النبي صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم قال لا ينظر الله عز وجل إلى رجل ياتي امراته في دبرها لا ينظر الله إليه
Narrated by Sayyiduna Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Allah Almighty will not look at the man who approaches his wife from the back, Allah Almighty will not look at him.
تخریج الحدیث: «حديث حسن، أخرجه ابن ماجه: 1923، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 7684 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 7670»
حكم: حديث حسن